(Closed) I know you can't change who your Fiance's mothers are but come…

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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45377 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@fallprincess13:  I think this is your FI’s issue to deal with.

All you can do is support and be there for him. This is probably not the first wacko thing she has done. Most people who try to use manipulative behavior do it routinely to try to get their way. She may change her mind when she sees that he is not going to leave you just because she is being a drama queen.

Post # 4
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4646 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Honestly

If she doesn’t want to be there, f her. If she would hurt her son like that, well, let her live with it. 

His brothers? Miss you, but that was your decision.

As long as you and your fiance and your officiant show up you have all you reallly need. The rest are just a bonus. 

Sounds like they’re trying to emotionally bully you for whatever reason. Just say “sorry you can’t make it” and carry on. It’s their decision to back out. You have no responisbility in it. 

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