Post # 1
I dont know what to do. My future Mother -in-law has not always had the best relationship with men, and now shes starting to realize that Mr. K and I are not splitting up. NOw today she has desided that she will not be a part of our wedding. She has also convinsed one of her sons, who was gonna be a groomsman, to quit on us too (hopefully not the other son as well) WITH 2 MO. LEFT TO GO!!!!!!!! It seems that this wedding is just falling apart. My MOH had to drop out due to health issues and now this I just dont know what to do. AS you can imagine this has just devistated Mr. K and I. Any advise on what to do would be helpful.
Post # 3
@fallprincess13: I think this is your FI’s issue to deal with.
All you can do is support and be there for him. This is probably not the first wacko thing she has done. Most people who try to use manipulative behavior do it routinely to try to get their way. She may change her mind when she sees that he is not going to leave you just because she is being a drama queen.
Post # 4
If she doesn’t want to be there, f her. If she would hurt her son like that, well, let her live with it.
His brothers? Miss you, but that was your decision.
As long as you and your fiance and your officiant show up you have all you reallly need. The rest are just a bonus.
Sounds like they’re trying to emotionally bully you for whatever reason. Just say “sorry you can’t make it” and carry on. It’s their decision to back out. You have no responisbility in it.