I Learned My Lesson About Ring Unhappiness

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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4893 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m so sorry he’s going through these things with his family. But it’s good that you see the important things in life. It’s true – the jewelry is fun and all, but the person is the real prize. 🙂 Take care of yourselves!

Post # 4
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474 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 1993

I am sorry this is happening to both of you.  While we can’t control the actions of others we can control how we react to it.  It is a good thing that he has you to help him weather this storm, and that is what love is all about, weathering the storms together.  You both will make it through because you have each other.

Post # 6
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929 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I am sorry you are experiencing this….. we are supposed to leave our parents and cleave to our spouse, so while you are enduring this, look at it this way.. it will be an opportunity for you guys to grow closer together without the family’s interferance.

As far as the ring…. a couple of things…. The BEE is a good thing but it can be dangerous… You were probably really happy about your ring until you came here and saw others…. I have seen that happen many times…  Second just remember the type and size of ring is not a measurement of how much your FI loves you… It is simply an expression of his love for you and and the declaration of his intent to make you his wife. There are plenty of people with big rings who are in divorce court.

I pray that you and your FI continue to support each other this process… You sound life a very self reflective young woman.. so stand strong on your convictions.

 

 

 

 

Post # 8
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409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My prayers are with your FI. I’m also very glad that you have realised the ring is not what’s important 🙂 

Post # 9
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6407 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m sorry to hear about the problems, but I’m glad to hear you had that lightbulb moment and are now able to be more appreciative of what you have, without actually losing it (I thought this story was going to either about losing the ring or your fiance himself, I’m so glad it didn’t!) 

Hoping your external situation restabilizes soon!

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