(Closed) I like Lesbian Porn (Personal Information)

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Eh.  I don’t think it means any thing really.  Women are gorgeous after all.  😉  It sounds to me like you’re maybe worried about your sexal orientation changing?  I believe you can find people sexy regardless of gender without it changing your sexuality.  As long as pornography doesn’t conflict with your personal values then I don’t think you really have anything to worry about.  And I’m sorry about your miscarriage.  I can’t imagine how hard that must have been.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

It could just mean that you’re sexually attracted to both men and women.  You don’t need to emotionally desire women/want to have relationships with them to enjoy thinking about having sex with them.  

Are you worried that you won’t be happy getting engaged to/becoming more serious with your current male partner without the chance to “try out” sex with women?  Have you ever found yourself sexually attracted to a woman in real life, not in pornography?  If not, perhaps you are just responding to the sexual way in which women are presented in pornography. They are depicted as sexually enticing objects and I’ve read about studies that showed that straight women as well as men become aroused when presented with images of sexually enticing images, be they of men or women.

Did you start finding women sexually appealing during your pregnancy or only after miscarriage?  In any case, I wouldn’t worry about it too much, unless it is leaving you seriously conflicted about what you want in your relationship or you currently have some moral qualms with pornography or homosexuality.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Agree with @caitlanc

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Perhaps through the pain of your miscarriage (I’m so sorry) you subconsciously became attracted to women because they cannot cause you that kind of pain, as in literally impregnate you?  I don’t know, could be a stretch.  I wouldn’t worry about it as long as you’re truly happy in your current relationship.  Lots of people are attracted to both men and women.  Best of luck to you!

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Actually, women are more into lesbian pornography because it’s usually more sensual, as opposed to most woman/man. There was a study about it. If I can find it I’ll post, but I saw it on Tyra. There are some sites that have “girlfriend friendly” porn, with a man and woman. Try watching that and see if that does anything for you. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

well i don’t really know what your biggest worry was, but like already said, i don’t think you have much to worry about. i think every women can find another women attractive, and it’s true, women together is generally more sensual, and that’s what usuallys girls, right?

and i don’t know if you’re boyfriend is into that at all but if he is i’m sure he would love the fun you two could have (maybe tmi, but true).

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

I just want to be another girl on here to tell you I agree with all of the things the girls have mentioned above.. I think its more the sensualness of it and so on. I think if youre worrying about it.. you shouldnt.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

I wouldn’t worry about it.  I’m bisexual.  I just don’t act on things; it helps I’m very committed to during my relationships.  Fiance knows about my orientation and is fine with it.  As long as you’re open about it to your significant other or don’t dwell on it, it’s fine.  It is more sensual as previous posters said.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am a completely straight woman… and I love my man and his big ole penis… but when if comes to watching movies or even reading stories. I would much rather watch two women… not only because i find women more attractive but I think it is more sensual and ,…. I dunno…. i hate seeing porn where the guy is gettin head so lol

I honestly dont think it means anything

Post # 12
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Busy bee

It doesnt mean anything other than something (among others) that you are attracted to. Women in pornography you usually cant go wrong because they are always very attractive and very good looking, men in pornography on the other hand can go very wrong very quickly (ie Ron Jeremy). So I think it’s easier to be attracted to lesbian pornography but cutting out the ho-hum, less hung male! =)

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree with many of the others on here. I wouldn’t be concerned with it! I know MANY other girls who find lesbian porn more attractive than heterosexual porn. It’s usually more sensual and more graphically appealing 😉

Post # 14
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592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I wouldn’t be worried about it. One of my professors did a study on it, and women are almost universally sexual aroused. In other words, most images of people engaging in sexual (and likely sensual) acts aroused women. We are just more open to finding others of our sex attractive. Personally I find womens bodies more attractive than most men, and I’ve experimented with women, but I love my boy and would never look for nor do I think I would be fulfilled by a relationship with a women.

Another key might be the element of porn being fantasy. Lots of people enjoy a particular style or porn because it is something they can’t have (or don’t even want) in real life. But by viewing it they are allowed to enjoy it without having it.

If you are happy and comfortable in your relationship, than don’t worry about it.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I absolutely wouldn’t worry about it. I am a soon to be married heterosexual who enjoys lesbian porn. I have spoken to several girlfriends about it and they also watch lesbian porn. For me, its because women are so much more sensual. Female/male porn just doesn’t do it for me, its not sensual at all. Of course, lesbian porn can sometimes be the same, but by far I have noticed most of it is more sensual.

 

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