Post # 1
- Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia
My last email from my dad to both my FI and I was, “Yeah, we can play this song at the reception. It’s nice!” (Beach Boys – Wouldn’t it be Nice if We’re Together)
He celebrated his 63rd birthday less than 30 days ago.
Earlier this morning, I received a phone call that he had a heart attack while he was mowing the lawn. My brother told me that I have to prepare to fly back to Southeast Asia.
An hour later, my mom called. I was really hoping for good news. My mom tried to be calm, “Daddy’s gone. He just passed away” I kept saying NO and couldn’t stop crying and shaking. I’m still in shock.
He won’t be there for my tea ceremony.
He won’t get to walk down the aisle with me.
It pains me even more that our little family band is missing my father. I remember whenever I was practising piano, he would whip out his guitar and play along.
Sorry for the emotional post.
Post # 3
@Cynderbug: I couldn’t imagine the pain you feel right now. I’m so sorry. *hugs* He will be there in spirit.
Post # 4
Oh sweetie I am so sorry to hear that! Sending hugs and prayers for you and your family.
Post # 5
@Cynderbug: Oh my gosh, I am so, so sorry. I don’t know that I can say much to make it better, but we’re here for you. *Hugs*
Post # 6
@Cynderbug: *hugs, so many hugs* i am so sorry for your loss.
sending love to you and yours
Post # 7
@Cynderbug: Oh my goodness. I know words are inadequate, but I am so, so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how you feel right now. Please remember to take very good care of yourself during this difficult time.
Post # 8
@Cynderbug: I’m so sorry for your loss. That is so heartbreaking to hear. *Hugs* You will be in my prayers
Post # 9
@Cynderbug: Oh I’m so sorry. My father also passed away (years ago) and it was painful to not have him there for the wedding, but just remember he is there watching you, smiling over you.
Post # 10
I am so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs.
I lost my Dad to a heart attack as well.
Our Dads will always be with us. Cherish the memories that you made with him. And take care of yourself.
Post # 11
oh my gosh, i am so sorry. i can’t even imagine everything you are feeling right now. my heart is with you and your family <3
Post # 12
@Cynderbug: I am so, so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away almost a year ago to the day (also a heart attack) and I know you must just be in shock right now. It’s comforting that your last interaction with him such a sweet and positive one. Take good care of yourself and your family right now and big hugs to you.
Post # 13
@Cynderbug: So so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family, sending you hugs.
Post # 14
Oh God, I’m so, so sorry. My heart goes out to you.
Post # 15
I am so so sorry for your loss! If you need anything please don’t hesitate to ask. You know I’m only a couple hours away. *hugs* my heart goes out to you right now.
Post # 16
- Wedding: July 2014 - Prague
Big Hugs!!! 🙁 I’m so sorry for your loss.