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I LOVE MY DRESS!!!...but

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    Future Mrs. Oswald    09/18/10   Iowa

    Yeah, not the best way to start a post, huh?! Let me explain...

    So I bought my dress, I love it, My Mom loves, everyone I've deemed important enough to be able to see a picture of it loves it, there's just one thing...

    I keep having nightmares that my sometimes overly opinionated FH absolutely hates it on our day. I told him about it today, and he just looked at me (he knows he can be opinionated sometimes) and said, "I'm not stupid, I won't tell you if I don't like it. I don't want to piss you off that day!" So here's me...thrown into overdrive of nerves!

    So, tell me what you think.. is my dress everything I think it is?

    PS, please excuse the horrible stock photo! My mom and I took pictures of every single dress I tried on, but then I put this one on, and we both got so excited and I was soo happy, and she was crying that we just totally spaced if off!!

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    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    I think it's hard to ask other people what they thing of the dress you love.  Everyone has different ideas as to what looks good to them.  That's why there's ssooo many different types of wedding gowns.  This honestly, is not something I would pick for myself, it's just not me.  BUT if you love it and you look awesome in it and it's truly you, keep it and be proud of your dress! 

    I wouldn't worry about the FI, I'm SURE you'll look really really good in it and he'll love it!

     

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    Don't worry about it - he will absolutely LOVE you in it! 

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    It's absolutely beautiful! I'm sure he will love it.

    I have been having those nightmares too! I thought it was just me. My FI is really plain and my dress and veil aren't at all and I'm so afraid he is going to hate it. I actually was so upset over it that I was crying when I woke up from another nightmare yesterday LOL

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    It's beautiful and I'm sure your FI will absolutely love you in it! Don't worry about it!

     
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    alishaneva    May 2011   Lancaster, PA

    That dress is absolutely gorgeous! I don't think you have one thing to worry about!

     
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    prettylady    8/7/10   NC

    Oh he will love you in it!

     
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    amyeileen80    05/29/2010  

    You will be BEAUTIFUL! Don't worry for a second!

     
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    He will definitely LOVE you in that dress, I think it's very close to a guys' version of what they think a wedding dress should look like!

     
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    I think it's most important to personally love your dress rather than worry about what others will think.  If you love it, it will show...and I don't see how your FI can dislike something that you are so happy with.

     
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    91011Bride    September 10, 2011   Destination wedding

    Your mom cried when she saw you in it!  Believe me... you look awesome in the dress and he'll cry too. 

     
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    gracez    December 2009   Northern Virginia, but getting married in TX

    i think the dress is beautiful!  he will LOVE you in it!

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    It's beautiful! Maybe you should show him a picture if you really want to know what he thinks. Showing him a picture is different than him seeing you IN it though, so you wouldn't exactlly be ruining the 'surprise' of him seeing you in it!

    I showed mine a pic, but I didn't let him see the pic of me IN it, and he really liked it.

    Good luck!

     
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    mallorynjmf       Louisville, KY wedding in Vero Beach,FL

    This is one time that you should truly get what you want.. a dress that makes you feel wonderful on your special day.. Im sure he will love it especially because it makes you happy!!!

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    I really love how that looks!

     
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    DecemberBride    December 5, 2009  

    That dress is beautiful! I absolutely love it!

    I completely understand your fears... my FH is the same way, and I've been so nervous for him to see me in it ever since I bought it in January!

     

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