Post # 1
She just texted me to ask if it was okay if she wore a black dress because she was worried about making a “wedding mistake.” A black dress wouldn’t bother me one bit even if she hadn’t asked, I just love that she DID ask. So sweet. Plus, my mom’s dress is silver so they are going to compliment eachother very well!
So lucky with my FILs!!
Post # 2
Soon2BeMrsS: You are very lucky. I have a shitty MIL, but I will give her credit where credit is due since she didn’t become shitty until mostly after the wedding: she also bought a black dress (well, black skirt and top with some silver in it) and asked me if it was ok to wear black.
Post # 3
I told the moms that they knew how to dress themselves and whatever they wore would be fine. My mom is a bit of a fashionista and his mom has never worn something I thought was wrong. His mom got so excited to show me the dress she wanted to order the last time I was over there. She wanted my approval but I was like “Looks awesome. whatever you want lol” I think I’m throwing them off lol.
Post # 4
roguehnp2005: lol. Yeah, I haven’t told them anything about what to wear because I trust their judgment, but she sends me photos every now and then of dresses she’s considering. I’ve like them all, just not sure when she decided to get a black one. lol I guess I’ve been more of a go-between between her and my mom because FMIL doesn’t want to clash with her.
Post # 5
Soon2BeMrsS: it’s so nice to hear someone talk about how much they love their MIL! My MIL is awesome! She has offered so much for our wedding. She has been a huge part in making sure I have the time of my life on our wedding day and with the honeymoon.
Glad to know you are as lucky as I am! 🙂