(Closed) I love my MOH, but…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

she’s probably just trying to be supportive and involved. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

**hugs** its ok dont let it frustrated you. there is this great MOH to do list on Theknot.com maybe you could email it to her and show her what her duties are and you can make changes to it if you like as well.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Hate to say this…but sounds totally normal. It is exactly what I have had to do too. It’s frustrating, but that’s what happens when you are the first one!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I mean this in the nicest possible way, so please don’t get upset or offended.  Relax!  Go read apracticalwedding.com and get some perspective.  When I first got engaged I was feeling rather the same way about my FI (except worse because the “I can’t believe you don’t understand the way these things work”  was tinged with “Do you not really want to get married?”) He kept talking about being out of town alot this summer and lots of things to do that were not wedding and I didn’t see how we could get married if we didn’t spend any time on it.  Somewhere in the back of my head was the script that said “Obviously, when you are engaged you spend all of your free time planning your wedding and it takes over your whole life”.   I took a step back and thought about and realized I didn’t really want the wedding to take over my whole life and I chilled out.  I would like to gently suggest you do the same.  You’ll be happier for it.  If you find you can’t relax, you may want to think about what anxieties are driving you (don’t worry I have them too, why do you think I am on weddingbee when I should be working).  I highly reccomend the book “The conscious bride”

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