- 4 years ago
So, I understand that opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one, but WHY do people feel the need to SHARE theirs ALL THE TIME?!
Why when people vent about making a wedding invite list is a struggle do people always say “just elope”?! But then turn around and say “looking forward to getting an invite”?!
I’ve finally gotten FI to sit down and write an invite list and he put on fb that it was doing his head in and that he wished we had enough money to invite everyone we wanted. So naturally a bunch of people jump on the “just elope” bandwagon, oh and then it’s “just elope then have a big piss up” but then say “can’t wait for the big day” or “excited for an invite”. UGH!!!
Do you actually want us to elope? Cause if we did, guess what you wouldn’t be invited! That’s kinda the point of eloping!!! Oh and bad news, you didn’t actually make the invite list to begin with (oops! awkward!), especially when the only reason you want to come to the wedding is to get drunk on our coin… That’s not the point of a wedding!! Yeh, not going to happen.
But seriously, why do people blurt out “just elope” like that would be an easy option? I understand that to some people it is the best/easy option, but to us, it wouldn’t be. FI is the only son and baby of his family, so his mum and grandmothers are really looking forward to seeing him on his big day. I’m the only girl and baby of my family, so my dad is really looking forward to walking me down the aisle. Not to mention my aunty is my mother figure and as she hasn’t been able to have her own kids, she sees me as her daughter, and I’ve asked her to walk me down the aisle with my dad. If we were to elope we’d be disappointing our families.
But of course when I say, “that’s not an option for us”, I get “oh you’re the female, of course you want the big wedding/all the attention/*insert another cliche here*”. Actually, NO. I didn’t want a wedding party, whereas FI did, so I agreed to one. I’d be more than happy to have a family only wedding, but then you morons (not you bees, his fb mates, lol) would complain and get your knickers in a knot about not being invited. GAAAAAAAAAAAH.
I really wish some people would think before speaking. Or in this case, type. Jackarses.
Ok, I feel better now .