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I love them both, but which dress to choose?

posted 2 years ago in Dress
  • poll: OOPS! i accidentally deleted the first poll...
    Marisa (photo where you can see my head) : (77 votes)
    66 %
    Pronovias (photo where you can't see my head) : (39 votes)
    34 %
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    katy    8/8/2010   San Francisco

    Hi everyone!

    I'd love your help on picking my wedding dress!  I picked out two front-runners, but just cannot decide which one to choose!  I picked out a Marisa and a Pronovias dress.  I like the Marisa for the subdued rouching on the dress, but I like the Pronovias for its fabric and the bodice. The Marisa is taffetta so it's a bit shiny, which I'm not a huge fan of.  I like the silk dupioni on the Pronovias a bit more, but it looks like a lot of dress/fabric. I would probably fold in the last pleat as you see in the picture (that's why it looks so bulky there).  But overall, I'm not sure if the Pronovias actually looks too bulky on me.  So if you could give your input, I'd really appreciate it!  Thanks!!

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    They are both beautiful!  I voted for the Pronovias because I like the shape of it a little more.

     
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    beagle    October 24, 2009  

    They look so similar!  I voted for #2 because I like the overall fit better and that the waistline is clearly defined.  However both dresses look beautiful on you!

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I like the second one better for the same reason you mentioned.  I do not like the shine of the first one.  And I just like the pleated/ruching detailing on the second one a lot better.

     
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    nybride09    9/19/09   New York, NY

    the marisa makes you look sleeker.  both dresses are very similar and the style suits you. is the marisa sample a smaller size?

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    i like the second one better, the shape is a lot nicer on you, in my opinion :)

     
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    vintage2010    April 10, 2010  

    It is hard to tell in the pictures.  I think the first one gives you more curves.  But I can't tell if it is just because they aren't a true fit to your size.  It sounds like you like the second one better but I could be reading your message wrong.  I think I like the First one.  Do you have more pictures?

     
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    starburst    10/10/10   Living in FL, Wedding in MI

    These dresses look so similar to me, and you note that you like the fabric of the second better.. so my vote would be the Pronovias. As far as your question about the bulkiness.. no, I don't see it at all. It looks great.

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    They are both very pretty - I like the lines and fit of the Marisa better though.  I think where the waist sits on the Marisa really accentuates your tiny waist!

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    I LOVE the Marissa on you. I think it hugs all the right places, giving you the perfect shape. The Pronovias is beautiful as well, but I don't think it accents your body as well.

     
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    mskalinin    Sept. 12, 2009   North East

    It is hard to pick, since they are both pretty similar, but I think the Marissa has a better neck line for you! I like them both though, and if you prefer the fabric on the second, you should go for that!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    In terms of fit, Marisa is better on you (the bodice/waist/hips).  The way the Pronovias lays makes you look hippy-er than you really are.  I agree though that the Pronovias fabric is slightly better.  Is there another dress that perhaps incorporates both the fabric of the Pronovias and the cut and lie of the Marisa?

     
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    katy    8/8/2010   San Francisco

    Thanks SOOOO much for all your comments!  This really helps!  Interesting that the polls show the Marisa is the favorite, but the comments say otherwise?  Maybe that's because I accidentally deleted the poll and had to re-insert it.  Here are more pictures.  Thanks!

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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    I was going to say the exact same thing as DG, I think the second one (Pronovious) actually makes you look a little more wider & the first one (Marisa) makes your frame look slender & tall :)

    Ok.... just saw your new pics added & def rooting for Marisa :) Now that I can see more of the detailing, it is absolutly beautiful & very flattering!

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    PS I am biased b/c I am wearing a Marisa.  Also, the quality of Marisa dresses are better than Pronovias IMO.  I actually was deciding between a Marisa and Pronovias at one point too : )

     
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    kjpugs    March 20, 2010   Indianapolis, IN

    I think the Marisa makes you look slimmer in the middle and gives you a great shape. The other has a nice defined waist but I think the Marisa just flatters you more.

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    They are both goregous and do look similar. I voted for the Marisa and I do like the taffeta shimmer, but if you don't care for it the other is very nice as well. I'd choose either in a heartbeat, I can see why you're torn!

     
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    SanDiegoAli    September 18, 2010   San Diego

    You look lovely in both, but I chose the Marisa.

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    marisa - more flattering waist and the line at the top is more forgiving in the arms/armpit

     
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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    I voted for the Marisa. I may be partial because I just bought a Marisa myself :) but I think it's more flattering on you.

     
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    Scusie    April 10, 2010   Scottsdale, AZ

    I voted for Pronovias because I think the lines  fall better on you. But, they are both so similar that I would go with the one that will save you a few extra bucks to spend in some other area of the wedding :) Both amazingly beautiful!

     
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    melodyjune    April 2010  

    Oh my gosh—they're both gorgeous. You can't go wrong with either one, although I voted for No. 1. Both are beautiful!

     
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    catlady    June 26, 2010   Toronto

    Both dresses are gorgeous but I would have to go with the Marisa as it shows your figure so much better. 

    As far as worrying the dress maybe too shiny, most photographers are great at editing pictures to get a bit of the shine out.

     
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    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    The marisa is slightly more flattering on you, but the provinas is also beautiful and flattering itself.

     
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    jbbaby    March 12, 2010   San Diego

    I like the first one because the subtle sweeheart neckline looks better. I also think the first one fits great on you!!

     
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    plaid    October 23, 2010  

    I love how the second one gathers at the waist. I've been looking at a similar style dress. I also like that it's not quite as shiny. It's gorgeous!

     
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    Lish    October 10th, 2009   Memphis, TN

    I'd have to agree with the Marisa too - the difference is that the slight rouching makes you look tall and slender and yet still curvy and womanly but the more boxy rouching makes your waist look shorter - it takes away from the sense of height and the delicate feeling, if that makes sense.

     
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    quiche    May 2, 2009   Chicago

    I really like the Provonias dress - but they are pretty similar and are both very pretty!

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I vote for the Marisa because it looks like it fits you better and gives you a nicer shape.  I like the sheen on the Marisa, and I think it would look fabulous in professional photos.  Also, I have tried on both designers' dresses and I feel like Pronovias dresses weight so much.  They feel heavy and not too comfortable to move around in-- just my opinion.  Good luck!  :)

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    Both are great, but you look especially beautiful in the Marisa.

     
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    ScotIrishGirl    March 20, 2008   Memphis, TN

    I think they both look great on you, but I would vote for the first dress.  i think it looks more demure and suits your petite figure better.  Good luck on choosing!  I went round and round on my dress! Sealed

     
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    morgan_e_johnson    June 19 2010   chicago

    Marisa really shows off your figure and has a little bit more wow factor. I would go for that one

     
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    You look beautiful in both of them, but my husband and I agree on the Pronovius (thought you might want a certified man's opinion).

    I have a piece coming out in the next Exquisite Weddings Magazine about finding the best dress for your body type. You can't go wrong with silk dupioni; it's so flattering.

    By the way, it doesn't look like you're sporting too much material with the Pronovius at all. You look ravishing.

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    I'm on team Marisa. It fits you so well!

     
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    mandalynn17    June 19, 2010   Medford, OR

    I like pronovios!

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    I think they are fairly similar but I love the details of the Pronovias better. Either way, they are both BEAUTIFUL dresses!

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    I can't really explain why, but I like the Marisa better on you

     
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    The immigrant bride    June 25, 2010   Santa Barbara, CA/Los Angeles, CA

    Both dresses are beautiful on you. I think I like the Marisa better. If you think that the taffeta is too shiny it might not be the best option since you are going to see it in pictures for years to come. Good luck!!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Katy, what did you decide?

     
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    BAbride    Aug 2010   San Francisco

    Do you have pictures for the back of these dresses?

     

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