(Closed) Oh Dear!!!! I think I may have just had my first Bridezilla moment……….

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Geez! You think they would want to protect their tables from scratches and the only way to do that is with tablecloths! Wanting tablecloths doesn’t make you a ‘zilla, that guy sounds a little rude.

Post # 4
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104 posts
Blushing bee

I dont think you were being a bridezilla.  You’re allowed to have ideas and an opinion without that making you a crazy bride.    People almost like, expect the brides to be flipping out all the time..so the second you voice your opinion it’s like “ohhhh lets not upset the bride!” and you’re just like, huh?   I dont know, that guy seemed a bit rude, i wouldn’t worry about it.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Well at least your guy isn’t telling telling you you can have anything you want for no additional charge but charging you up the wazoo behind your back (yeah… he got fired…) But seriously, everyone has bad days, I’m sure he’s seen worse than tablecloths. Perhaps next time you could make a comment about how beautiful the tables are… ? Sounds like he just wants someone to notice them lol

Post # 7
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278 posts
Helper bee

No & i think the worst zillas don’t think they are EVER wrong and you seem very aware. Happy planning 🙂

Post # 9
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390 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@anne B: Lol. I like this statement “Nobody needs them,  but i want them , because the vision i have for my wedding tables INCLUDES  tablecloths!   Grrrrrrrr!”

I don’t think you were being a bridezilla but I giggled when I read that last line–I imagined a small child in a white dress stamping her foot. Too funny.

Post # 10
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

This isn’t bridezilla. I think that anytime we have envisioned something for our weddings and then someone questions it or tries to change it, you immediatley have the thought, “this is my wedding pal, back off”. This is no different than a hairdresser saying “Oh you want to darken your hair, no you should lighten it, we’re going to do that instead”. It’s yours and if you want it a certain way, then that’s how it should be. I hate the bridezilla stigma. Anywhere else in life (besides weddings) you wanting it a particular way wouldn’t be questioned.

Post # 11
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Thats odd that he doesnt want to protect the tables with a table cloth…

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

You aren’t a bridezilla. I thought all venues give you an option to have tableclothes. Does this venue not allow tableclothes? or do you have to provide them? 

Also, you would think they would want to protect the tables with tableclothes to keep them in great condition. 

You are entitled to have your reception area the way YOU want without getting an attitude. That would stress anyone out. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I dont think thats Bridezilla! Your just making your wants/needs known and ahead of time!

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