- 5 years ago
- Wedding: January 2019
I’ve been engaged since July of last year. When I first got engaged, I planned on doing a semi-destination intimate beach wedding with our families and a few friends. We’d rent a house on the beach with a patio and hold the wedding and reception there. Then, it turned into a traditional, local church wedding with everyone we know.
And now, 9 1/2 months out, I might be changing it all back.
Nothing except my dress has been paid for, so it’s possible. I’m so torn as to which type of wedding I actually want. On the one hand, I get really uncomfortable around large groups of people, so an intimate beach wedding sounds heavenly. On the other hand, except for last summer, I’ve been planning to have a church wedding since I was 5.
For the most part, FH doesn’t have an opinion. He does prefer the beach idea, but not to any great degree. He’ll be happy with whatever I plan. The honeymoon is what he really cares about, and we’re definitely going to the beach somewhere for that.
Budget-wise, it would be about the same either way so that doesn’t help sway me one way or another.
I’m so frustrated with my own indecisiveness and running out of time to make a decision.