(Closed) I miss my husband..

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

πŸ™ I can’t even imagine. Keep yourself busy and talk to the other military wife bees on here. I know there are lots of them. Bootcamp will be over (evennntuallyyy) and you’ll get to see him again.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

aww hugs to you

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

(((Hugs)))

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Hang in there!!  I know it is awful, but try to stay positive and keep busy.  My husband is a submariner, so he deploys for 3 months at a time.  During that time we have no phone calls, no skype, no idea where they are, etc. Emails only come up off the ship three of four times per patrol, so it is awful not hearing from them for so long.  πŸ™  But it will pass, and you will find you are stronger than you ever thought you could be!

My husband said that he got VERY limited time to do anything during boot camp…they even have your day planned down to how long you can be in the shower!  So don’t get too sad if he can’t write often, and just know that he’s thinking about you and missing you as much as you’re missing him!  Hugs to you!!!!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Oh…PS.  It is totally okay to feel sad and cry sometimes too.  Missing him is a completely normal and healthy reaction…just try not to let it consume you.  And shake off the comments you get about “you knew what you were getting into” from people who don’t understand.   That always upset me so much. πŸ™ I never thought I”d be a military wife either, but yet here we are! There are some awesome online support groups for military wives that you can check out. Talking to others who are in the same situation always made me feel a bit better.  πŸ™‚

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

(hugs)

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Oh, I’m so sorry! It’s really painful but you’ll get through it. Focus on getting through the day and the weeks take care of themselves.

as a pp said, being sad and crying is 100% normal. Do it! Just don’t dwell on it. You have to just pull yourself up, make yourself get dressed and get out of the house.

Write lots of letters! It was very therapeutic for me to write it out. Are you connected with his class on facebook or online in some way? I found (mostly mothers) but some gfs/wives of men in my DH’s class when he was gone. I connected with one girl who is a friend even to today, 2.5 years later.

It’s really hard, but you WILL get through it. Good luck!

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m sorry πŸ™ I can’t imagine how difficult it must be.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

many hugs sent your way!

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