I need advice…

posted 3 years ago in LGBTQ
Post # 3
9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would send her a message and say, “Omg your bra is showing in a few of your pictures!!!!  lol!!”


Post # 4
5909 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@MrsPaperFlowers:  …babe, this is coming from a good place, but there’s no good way to say it.  Trust me, she knows that her bra is sticking out and exactly why she’s getting those messages, don’t say a word and buy her a bra in black so it at least blends in.

Post # 5
1548 posts
Bumble bee

@MrsPaperFlowers: tbh it’s a style, they make shirts that way to look like a bra is sticking out. Just explain to her the way you dress will get you both wanted and unwanted attention. Tell her to be careful because many guys attention will not be as innocent as she may be led to believe

Post # 6
1103 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I think a very gentle note would be fine?  Although I’m not sure how to phrase it, hmmm. 

Post # 7
383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Have you tried taking her out shopping? Try a trip to Victoria’s Secret.  Maybe help by pointing her in the right directions when it comes it comes to bras and camis.  While your friend is a mature adult, she missed out on the young teenage girl experience which is where we learn about things like bras and proper undergarnments.  She may need a little help. 

Post # 12
325 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Has she asked for your advice? I guess I’m not seeing how it’s your responsibility to take her shopping and make sure she’s covered up. I’m not being snarky, but I don’t dress my friends. If they want to look or dress a certain way, that’s their choice. She is afterall and adult right?

Post # 14
11668 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It sounds like she’s doing it on purpose.  Unless she has a brick for a brain, I’m sure she also knows that’s contributing to the messages. I wouldn’t say anything.

Post # 16
1548 posts
Bumble bee

@MrsPaperFlowersive have you ever seen Selena? Same style came back with modifications. I wouldn’t tell you to cover her or go shopping as that’s HER style. I’ve e dressed like that going clubbing it’s just important to let her know the types of attention it can bring

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