I need advice… feeling lost

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@anon27:  You need to have an honest conversation, face to face, not via text. If you both love each other and want the same things, you can work it out. Just not through text!

Post # 4
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470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@anon27:  I agree with pp, you need to talk, face to face and both be willing to put the past behind you and move on. Good luck. 

Post # 5
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412 posts
Helper bee

@MrsBlah:  +1 text is a nightmare! You only get the words which is actually only 7% of communication if it’s an emotional context. The rest is vocal/non verbal. You need to be able to talk, face to face to be able to work out what both of you are actualy saying.

Beyond that I can’t give you much advice, what she said vs how she acted are quite different, and without knowing her I couldn’t say which is true.

She may be afraid of getting hurt, she may think she’s ready to settle down but isn’t. Only she knows, and only you can find out by talking to her.

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