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    MrsJellybean227    January 1, 2011   TN

    I have no idea what to say to her to help her. This is her 2nd miscarrage within a year. Her boyfriend won't even talk to her, not because she miscarried- but because she got pregnant in the first place. The she told him, he said "i"m not mad at you" and that all there was said about it, when she lost her baby all he said "so your not pregnant" and he hasn't talked to her since. She really wants his support, but obviously isn't getting it. She's mourning the loss of her little one and the complete idiocy of her boyfriend. Bees please help me help her.

     
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010  

    to me its the little things that count

    I.e bringing  dinner round one night, taking her shopping for a day, asking her to go for a walk. Letting her know your there. Maybe giving her call every two days or something asking how she is...or maybe just sending her flowers with a cute saying.

    that kind of stuff is helpful and would be appreciated.

     
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    professorbee    8/8/09  

    Oh, I'm so sorry.  She really needs a friend - try to visit her and bring her food, and tell her how sorry you are and that you are there to listen if she ever needs anyone to talk to.  Let her set the tone as to how often you discuss this situation.

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I am so sorry for your friend. All you can do is just be there to listen to her. She will feel the loss for a very long time. I know this from experience. It is not something you get over. It is something that you just learn to live with and put aside after a time. It will always be in the back of her mind. When it happened to me, it helped me to know I had someone that I could talk to and lean on.

     

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