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    Lexatron    September 6th, 2009   Missoula, MT

    I've been seeing a lot of posts lately about women wearing their mother's or grandmother's wedding gown, and it's been making me think a lot about the dress that is currently hanging in my guest bedroom closet.  My mom was the only of my grandmother's six daughters to ask if she could wear her dress, so when I got engaged, I immediately thought of how special it would be to wear that same dress.

    It turns out that it's nowhere near fitting me, and it's in really bad shape, as well.  It wasn't professionally cleaned after my mom wore it, so it has been just yellowing away in her closet for the last 30+ years.  Now that I'm not wearing it, my mom has given me the ok to use it for whatever I'd like.  It's in such poor condition that I can't imagine any future member of our family wanting to wear it, so I'm considering cutting it apart and making something out of it.  I thought that it would be especially nice if I could make something for my mom and for myself, but then sometimes I wimp out at the thought of cutting apart an 80-year old dress and decide to just tuck a piece of lace from it into a locket for myself.

    Obviously, I'm conflicted.  I think that I'd be happy to make something out of it if I knew that it would be something special, but I'm at a loss for what to make!

    Any ideas?

     
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    mhirni    September 12, 2009   Oakland, CA

    Do you or your mom quilt?  It might be fun to take material from the dress and incorporate it into a quilt.  You could even sacrifice your FH's tie (if it isn't rented!) and maybe find other materials related to your wedding.

     
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    JoonBee    06/2010  

    You mean you want to use the dress to make something for your wedding or just anything? 

    What about a clutch?  Or a ring bearer pillow?  I am thinking accessories of some type.

     
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    smyley    May 2010  

    How about using it to cover a photo album full of your wedding pictures? Don't know what kind of fabric it is or embellishments on it but there's lots of ways to use the pieces! I think her mouth would drop open when she received it,and I'll bet she'd shed plenty of tears just seeing it.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    I'm using part of my mom's dress to wrap my bouquet. Although I don't feel so bad about cutting it... there's already a square cut out from my brother's wedding. They used it for part of their chupah.

     
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    soon2bewed925       California

    I like the clutch & the wedding album ideas! 

     
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    jesstagirl    February 20, 2010   Italy

    I'm in the same boat as you are and I'm pretty positive I'm going to see if I can make a veil out of part of her gown. If that doesn't work then I may cut a piece of her dress and sew it to mine with My Name + Fiance Name + Our Last name and our wedding date (I have a picture of what I'm ghinkign of somewhere, but can't find it now...of course.)

     
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    Lexatron    September 6th, 2009   Missoula, MT

    @mhirni:  I wish we quilted!  That would be really amazing.  I'll keep that in mind, though - in case I ever learn!

    @JoonBee:  Good question - I guess that I really want something from it to be with me on my wedding day, but something that won't just get put in a drawer or a closet afterward.  My grandma just passed away earlier this year, and I'd love to have something of hers that I see/use every day to remind me of her.

    @smyley:  Great idea!  It's heavy satin with lace accents.  I think the satin would definitely make a semi-durable album cover.

     
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    Lexatron    September 6th, 2009   Missoula, MT

    Oooh artbee!  That's a great idea!

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    What about a ring pillow?

     
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    gamblina    October 29, 2010  

    i've seen that you can send fabric away and have teddy bears made out of it. i think that most people do it with loved ones clothes when they pass away. if you had a bear made maybe you could tie the rings between the paws and the ringbearer could carry it as well? i googled "memory bears" and a few things popped up.

     
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    LittleOctopus    October 10, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    You could sew a little square of it underneath your dress for your "something old" and then maybe your dress will get passed down along with the bit from the heirloom.  I like the idea of the locket for your Mom!

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    Oh, I like LittleOcopus' idea! I also like the idea about using part of the dress for your veil if it has lace!

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I love the ideas of using it as a clutch :)

    also, you could have the lace sewn on one side of a soft white fabric and give them to your mother, fmil, grandmothers, yourself, etc as hankies to clutch

     

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