- 7 years ago
Sooo I am planning my 2nd wedding. The first time I was married, my bridesmaides were my best friend from college, best friend from high school, and best friend from elementary school (who was my MOH). Well it’s now been 8 years and I am getting remarried. I am no longer close at all with my best friend from high school due to a falling out…so she will not even be invited to the wedding. My best friend from college and I are closer than ever, so she will definitely be a bridesmaid. The dilemma is regarding my best friend from elementary school, who has always been super amazing and supportive, but over the past 4 years we have grown apart a little bit. She has 3 wonderful kids and a great husband, but we are just in different places and both super busy, so we just aren’t as close. I will of course be inviting her to the wedding, but I just don’t feel close enough to her to have her be a bridesmaid right now, and I also know how busy she is and know she certainly doesn’t need to be spending money on a bridesmaid dress…Is it wrong to not ask her to be in my second wedding when she was so much a part of my first?