i need help. STD's go out this week

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Do you want them there? 

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think if you’ve told them about wedding plans, then you may need to invite them.  On the other hand, if you really didn’t want them there, I don’t think it would be the end of the world.

Personally, I would invite them.  I would see this as an opportunity to maybe start reconnecting with all of your dad’s family and rebuild relationships.  Weddings to bring people together, and it seems like they are trying to make the effort to improve the situation, even if it did take a life changing thing like your wedding to make them make that effort.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

Skip the STD, and decide closer to the date if things are going well then decide if you want to invite them.

I don’t see sending an STD ending well in this case.

 

 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

People like to be around people when they look fun and interesting. Right now you look really cool as a bride to be. Your fiance clearly thinks you are special and your cousins are taking that cite to reach out and get to know you.  They are probably hoping for an invite, but you don’t have to invite them if you don’t want to.  If they are local you certainly can skip the STD.  I’d wait to decide whether to include them in your wedding. 

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