(Closed) I need some encouragement

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

It’s okay, don’t worry! I honestly just tuned those comments out. I got them ALL THE TIME and we only dated 1.5 years before getting engaged!! I was really weirded out by peoples expectations. And I was always wondering why they asked ME?? No one ever asked him!! So unfair!

Just try to take those comments as a compliment. That means they would approve of you two getting married which is a GOOD thing.

Post # 4
170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m weary in waiting too, but oddly enough, it’s my boyfriend who’s always getting that question! I agree with ModernDaisy– I feel that it’s a huge compliment that people think of us as a couple on their way to marriage. I know it can be frustrating because there’s very little that we as women can control when it comes to engagement– it’s like asking someone “hey, when’s it gonna rain?” Heck if we know.

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