(Closed) I need to vent…

posted 6 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 3
14498 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Sorry you are having to go through that.  I know how hard family can be when dealing with a wedding, but the Bee is a great place to come for when you need to vent it out.

Post # 4
973 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m sorry your going through this it really sucks when your sister can’t be there for you when you really need her. How old is she? i ask because she might be jealous that you are on such a great path, MD program, a fiancee and she’s apparently at home smoking weed with no prospects

Post # 5
1370 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Vent away!

What a ridiculous situation. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. Especially when you told her upfront about the costs. I’m sorry she’s using your neice like that. How sad. Sounds like she needs to grow up!


Post # 7
3452 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wow!  How irritating!  Some people just don’t get it, no matter how hard you try. 

Post # 8
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m sorry that you have to deal with this, vent away that’s what we’re all here for. Weddings have this way of bringing out the crazy in people unfortunately. 

Post # 9
804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Ug, that sucks.  I can’t believe that kind of behavior.  I mean I believe you, but it’s just so awful.  

I also can’t imagine being 12 and not liking my aunt, I’m thinking your sister is projecting.

If she’s jealous, well…I feel sorry for her that she can’t pull herself up enough to be happy for you.

Post # 11
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

God this all sounds so ridiculous. Are you having any friends in the wedding that you can delegate dealing with your sister to? You shouldn’t have to deal with this type of bs especially as your in med school to boot! Sounds like your sister is super bitter and possibly, just from the general comments, not all that functional.

I kinda think you should just say to her that you “totally understand” if it’s too much for her, stress and money, and if she wants you’d be happy for her to play a different role such as doing a reading at ceremony. My guess is she might get a grip because even if she acts like it’s a big imposition, this sounds like the biggest thing happening in her life right now and I doubt she will want the attention of bridesmaid stripped…

As for the 12 yr old, I think her lack of respect and maturity ( even for a 12 year old!!) just further prove why your decision not to include her was best! then again your sister is probably coaching her into it, so it’s kinda sad for her too, being a kid! Tough one..so sorry!!!

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