(Closed) I need to vent about my friend's boyfriend

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
507 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@autumnmountainbride:  Couple things. I have one of these. He sucks, he cheated, he was useless, he degraded my boy.

He’s now going to be a plus one at my wedding and is an occasionaly hang out person. Yeah my boy deserves better than this dick but he’s who he has chosen. No, I dont dig him. Yes he knows I’m not his biggest fan, but the one thing I have to impress on you is dont anticipate this dude wont be in your life for keeps if you love your friend.

Like your friend, my boo, holding an MFA a super well paying job, emotionally/financially successful, was going to end it several times over the past 4 years. Managed to end it for two months. When it comes to sigfigs you have to operate on, ” if they love them-you love them,” or atleast be prepared for that possibility.

If they really, really wanted to end it they’d break a lease or atleast have some awkward months (I have done it, so have a few pals…this actually was my previously mentioned boo’s initial reason for not ending it)

He sucks, you know it. Be there as best you can. Just know…he may be sitting at one your recep tables.

You’re a good pal for looking at for her…here’s hoping she gets it

Post # 5
Member
507 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@autumnmountainbride:  awesome thing about this is if you only have to deal with this ass in a few social sitches you can go with

how are you

what are you up to

how did you enjoy *whatever activity you engaged in together

It literally makes me gag to be around this pos, but I have just had to accept strained polite convo b.c I love my bestie so much. It effing sucks…and since we’re so much closer than the rest of my friends I simply can’t “fake it” as well as they can…so I feel you

Post # 6
Member
904 posts
Busy bee

UGH, this guy sounds like a peach! Encourage your friend to leave sooner! Life is too short for losers like him.

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