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Name: Anni
Age: 20
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) Engaged
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
A partner who excites and loves me every day.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains. I may be biased because I am in the field of Psychology and understand our brains as they relate to emotion, reason, language, etc.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Sandy blonde, because that's my fiance's hair color. :)
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Nature, wine, talking.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Lack of compassion or lack of respect for an equal partnership.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Monogamy is crucial - sex is between us.
Thanks for answering my questions!
Thanks so much!!! hopefully more bees will join in!
What do you mean by, "Sex before monogamy"? Just wondering!
like do u believe in having sex while dating other people
Having sex with your partner when you are dating other people? or having sex with multiple partners when you are single and dating? I'm confused too?
Having sex with multiple partners while you are single and dating. Sry for being confusing lol!
ill play too
Name: Desi
Age: 27
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Someone who gets me exactly the way I am.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains, because intelligence will help you find the way to happiness and accomplishment.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunettes
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Eating in an ethnic restaurant (indian, maroccan, Vietnamese). A great brodway show and some wine after.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
bad relationship with parents, no future, bad with kids, dont like animals.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Monogamy is important.
I'll play!!
Name: Justine
Age: 22
Relationship Status: Married
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Loving, compassionate, understanding, slow to anger, Mike :)
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains. I've dated "hunks" in the past and while it's fun at first to have that eye candy on your arm the relationship becomes very dull when you realize that the hunkiness is all that he has going for him. Conversations are boring and you realize you have nothing in common. Luckily I found a hunk with brains :)
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunette
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
A picnic at the beach!
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
physical or emotional abuse
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Um, no? I think.
I'll try to get FI to do this too...
Name: (I'm the only person on facebook with this name who ISN'T Asian, so can we just call me 'June'?)Age: 21Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) EngagedOrientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
A tall, dark-haired, hardworking, ambitious, intelligent, understanding, compassionate man. :)
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains, because brains keep producing interesting and exciting things throughout life, but beauty just fades in time.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
BRUNETTES. No question :P
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
We go to an amazing vegan restaurant and have a 5-course meal complete with lots of organic wine and cocktails. Then go dancing at some club hidden in the Lower East Side that plays fun and eclectic music, and drink only enough to make us loosen up and really get into dancing. Then head back to a schmancy hotel for a little fun (I know! TMI but um...that's the perfect end to a date).
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Dishonesty about something pretty major. Doesn't really matter what, just the magnitude suffices.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Uh, well it's not my preference but I don't care what anyone else does.
Thanks for answering my questions!
Fun - - I"ll participate 
Name: Marissa
Age: 30
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) Engaged
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less. A partner filled w/ love laughter and adventure for a lifetime.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why? Brains. It will offer endless amounts of upward mobility!
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads? Always brunettes, mmmm
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences. Dim lights and light music, along the water with continuous conversation and a bottle of wine.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker? RESPECT
6.) Sex before monogamy? Not too clear on this question...I will not condone any additional activities w/ other person(s.) Monogomy is vital in our relationship!
Thanks for answering my questions!
Name: Tonya
Age: 28
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Someone who takes me as I am.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains for sure...well at least at this point in my life. Good conversation is much more important to me now that I am getting older. I used to be all about looks! Lucky for me my guy is super smart and a cutie!
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunette
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Dinner. Wine. Music.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Lack of respect for my family and close lifelong friends. My family and friends are the MOST important things in my life.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Monogamy is key!! Well, in my relationship it is! =)
Thanks for answering my questions!
Name: Charis
Age: 24
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) engaged
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
respect, honesty, trustworthy, patience, compassion, understanding, fun!
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why? neither. Its the quality of relationship you based your life on. My man def wont win quizes but he is caring and sensitive and thoughtful. So which category does that fit in?
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads: brunette!!
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
movies, walk and coffee and cake.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker? dishonesty
6.) Sex before monogamy? monogamy.
Name: A
Age: 20
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Someone who is patient, understanding, loves all unconditionally, and supportive.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains--Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and brains can be beautiful!
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunettes
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
A wonderful dinner out followed by a movie and cuddling at home.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Cheating or racism.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
No.
My fiance answered too! ...
Name: D
Age: 22
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Funny, understanding, patient, loving.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains. Stupid people annoy me.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunettes.
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Food. Bowling. Being together.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Cheating.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Nope.
Not male, but I'll help out anyway!
Name: Melissa
Age: 29
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married): Married
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less. Honesty, patience, supportive, and ability to keep me grounded
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why Brains - my husband challenges me and I do him with our conversations
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads I'm going against the norm and saying bald :o)
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences Heading to a baseball game w/ my husband after a great dinner. Crab fries are a must!
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker? Children - if my husband didn't want any, that would definitely be a deal breaker for me.
6.) Sex before monogamy? Not a fan.
Relationship Status: engaged
Orientation: heteroflexible (mostly straight, not quite bi)
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
someone who brings out my best self and vice versa.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
brains, because beauty only gets you so far. I have to be mentally stimulated by a partner, not just physically ;)
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
any & all, I don't discriminate
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
baseball game, nap/chillax at home, late dinner at an ethnic restaurant.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
emotional cheating, doesn't want kids, refusal to compromise on big issues.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
yes, but not with more than one partner (as in, maybe someone is dating 3 people, but not having sex with 2 of them). i'm a firm believer in knowing what you're getting when you commit.
Name: Robin
Age: 27
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Bi (but in an "opposite relationship")
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Someone who is an addition, not a drain.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains. Beauty always fades and is easier to get used to. But shared values and a similar sense of humor is also important.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunettes - not even close.
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Jets game. They beat the Patriots. The weather isn't freezing.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
A double standard of any kind.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Always.
Name: We'll just call me MichelleAge: 29Relationship Status: DatingOrientation: Straight
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Sense of humor, highly intelligent, stable, security
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains is WAY more important. If I had gone with beauty, I'd be married to some real dingbats right now. Don't get me wrong, attraction is VERY important, but make sure there is something behind all those looks.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Neither, mostly baldheads, but other than that, brunettes
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Something simple and intimate and fun
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Long term Deception, not wanting children
6.) Sex before monogamy?
For me, I would only have sex if monogamy was on the horizon.
know the name of my blog just PM me! and if you could have your FI or husband fill it out that would be even more amazing!
Name: Christine
Age: 27
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
caring, thoughtful, funny, smart, loyal and loving
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
brains are more important because there will always be a point in the relationship where you have to rely on more than just sex appeal. I think it's important to do your best to always try to be physically appealing to your significant other, but if there is nothing to talk about that would really suck. No one can just have sex 24/7!
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Hmm....well we are both blondes so I have to say Blonde :-)
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
My best date would be a quiet dinner for two with some wine in an environment where we could talk and laugh freely. After that, I'd want to go somewhere it could be just the two of us for romantically making out and then....
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
infidelity, emotional cheating or long term dishonesty
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Yes, we had sex before monogamy.
Name: Danielle
Age: 26
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straigh
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Honest, fun, smart, loyal, trustworthy, loving
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Any
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Dinner with live music, good wine, play/opera, walking
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Cheating
6.) Sex before monogamy?
No. Waiting til marriage
Name: Eli
Age: 23
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) Engaged
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
love, honesty, passion, trust, soulmate, laughter, fun, loyal
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
I think both are important, because you should be attracted to them on a physical level, but I love my FH because he's so smart especially with logistical things and math (and I'm not so great at math!) and has great advice.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
He's blonde, and I'm brunette...Are you asking what I like best? No preference
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Going for a hike or a walk somewhere, with a small picnic, and a great view
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Cheating or abuse
6.) Sex before monogamy?
I've only dated 1 person at a time, and if it got to that level, I would engage in sex, so I'm always monogamous.
Name: Cydney
Age: 23
Relationship Status: Married
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual (Straight)
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less. ( Funny, Outgoing, Honest, Attractive, Driven, Open)
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why (Brains.. Beauty fades and I want someone I can talk with long into the night and have debates, someone to help me learn and teach me things. And for me to teach them things.)
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads. (Married Me a Ginger!) What What!
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences: Booze, Food, and to be able to regale friends later w/ a crazy story.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker? No Communication, Lying, Ignorance.
6.) Sex before monogamy? Yes Please!
Thanks for answering my questions!
I'll help!!
Name:Candace
Age: 26
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Someone who makes me want to be a better person
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains. Beauty only lasts so long. Besides, just because someone is eye candy doesn't mean they can make you laugh, think, or stimulate you mentally
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
I don't necessairly have a preference. My fiance is a blonde with red facial hair
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Somewhere fun with good food and a great atmosphere
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Cheating
6.) Sex before monogamy?
No. Sex is not to be shared with other people.
You ladies are truley amazing ! When i write the post ill be sure to post a copy here or PM it to you if you wish! I dont know if thats allowed to post it on here without my blog name but as soon as I find out ill let you all know!
Name: Shin and Brett
Age: 21 and 25
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less:
The man God made me to be with.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains, but more heart than brains. Beauty fades and I love a person for more than their appearance. But if someone doesn't stimulate and challenge me, that would be a vapid and boring marriage.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Well, what about black hair? Not really the same thing. He has brown hair and I've always been attracted to men with darker hair, although red heads are also cute!
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
We laugh, snuggle, and share.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
If he were not committed Christian. Or if he were gay.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Monogamy.
Name: M
Age: 22
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: heteroflexible (was too perfect not to quote); in a *straight* relationship
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less:
Honest, understanding, compassionate & accepting of me as I am.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains. I need constant mental stimulation. I love a good conversation or debate; I love being challenged. Extraordinary beauty may pique the libido, but everyone`s libido fades in time
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Anyone of these can be attractive; I don`t discriminate.
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Experiencing something new, whether it is a place, food, thought, or activity. Enjoying the others company with laughter and ease.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Disrespect, lack of communication, vastly differing values, cheating or abuse, lying.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
I prefer monogamy, even in dating/single circumstances. I don`t like to jump in bed with someone the moment I *might* be interested. Monogamy is important to me, not only for health reasons but for building a stronger basis for trust.
Name: Cathryn
Age: 24
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Someone who makes me laugh.
2.) What is more important; Brains or Beauty, and why?
Definitely brains. Intelligence is much more attractive then great bone structure!
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunette
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
A live show, good conversation, and late night appetizers/drinks/dessert in an intimate restaurant.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
Disrespect and dishonesty.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Monogamy is important in my relationship.
Name:Age:37Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married): EngagedOrientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: heteroflexible
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Honesty, loyalty, compassion, love, passion
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Initially, beauty because let's face it, for me, I need to be attracted to my partner. Brains is a must too though. A sexy, intelligent man...YUMMY. Just like my FH.
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunettes
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
Something active. A hike perhaps with a picnic.
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
You cheat, you're done.
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Yes. I agree with what @ ExLibris stated:
"yes, but not with more than one partner (as in, maybe someone is dating 3 people, but not having sex with 2 of them). i'm a firm believer in knowing what you're getting when you commit."
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Hi everyone! I have a blog not going to plug but I am doing a article on women vs men and their dating/relationship views if you could fill this out I would be greatful! If you would like to know the name of my blog just PM me! and if you could have your FI or husband fill it out that would be even more amazing!
Name:
Age:
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married)
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual
Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!
1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
6.) Sex before monogamy?
Thanks for answering my questions!