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I quit my job!

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    mssocks    October 10, 2010  

    I'm dying to tell the world that I've found a new, wonderful job and I've just given notice for my terrible, soul-stealing job!  Not only will I now have more money to save for the wedding, but I'll also have more time to plan and spend with FI since my commute will now only take 20 minutes instead of an hour!!

    I'm just so happy and excited!  Did anyone else go through a job change during their engagement?  Did it help or hurt your planning??

    Ahhhh I'm so happy! Thanks for letting me come here and shout it out!

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    Congrats on the new job!

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    I didn't, but this is awesome for you! Congratulations! Some extra money and leaving an awful position for a much better one is always a plus in my book! Good job!

     
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    pvaulter718    September 5, 2009   Pennsylvania

    Congratulations on making such a wonderful change :) remember this happy feeling about how much you love your new job, and think back to it on any day where the new job seems hard, tiring, or not all it's cracked up to be!

    Did you give 2 weeks? How long until you're out of the soul stealing location?

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    OMG, congrats!  I'm soooooo jealous!  Lol.  I was just talking to my FI about how the day I quit will be one of the best experiences ever... may even rival our wedding day!  Hahaha, I kid, I kid.  But my office is horrible and I am stressed out most days.  I can't wait to find something else.  I have to wait until after the wedding though unfortunately :( 

    Good for you, I hope its amazing!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    Congratulations!!

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    Yay! I love good news :) and this is definitely good news!

    @crebre, I'm surprised you're not popping out the bubbly to celebrate ;) or is it too early for that?

     
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    mssocks    October 10, 2010  

    Ahh...the two weeks question.  Here's the thing...I don't start until the 4th of Jan.  Next week is christmas week and I had already planned on taking most of it off for the holidays to see our families in the midwest. 

    So...no, I didn't really give two weeks of "working days."  I feel terrible about it, but if it was any other week than christmas week, I would have definitely given two weeks.  The week in between jobs is going to be fantastic though--can you imagine how much I can accomplish in one week without any obligations??

    So I do feel crummy about not giving the full two weeks, but I would have been on vacation anyway.  And the office is dead at this time of year anyway, so they should be okay.  Or am I just telling myself that to make me feel better?

    Besides, they didn't treat me with a ton of respect, so I'm not going to feel too guilty for too long!

     
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    What an exciting change!  Congrats!

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    Do NOT feel guilty.  That's just how the cookie crumble, you didn't intend to screw them.  Especially if they didn't respect you, the guilt should quickly be replaced with PURE JOY.  Seriously, I'm so happy for you.  I can't imagine!

     
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    Congrats on your new adventure!

     
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    realeastcoaster    July 11, 2009   Canada

    Congrats!

     
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    LovestheBear    July 2011  

    Congrats!!  Good luck on the new job!

     
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    grace8367    September 6, 2009   Chicago

    Congratulations!

     
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    Natakie16    May 2010   WNY

    Definitely do not feel guilty! How exciting, good luck to you!

     
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    mssocks    October 10, 2010  

    Thanks for all of the support, everyone!  Ohh I love all of you bees!  You give me warm fuzzies!

    @jennifer_espos, I hope you find something else as soon as the wedding is over!  Oh I know how downtrodden I felt and how horrible it is some days--good luck!  At least you have the wedding planning propelling you forward!

     
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    JuneBride_26June2010    June 26, 2010   Indiana (legally married 13-Apr-2009)

    congrats!!! I've totally "been there done that" as far as quitting a job you hate! I wish you absolute happiness in your new job! :)

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    Oh, congrats! I can ONLY imagine how great you must feel!!!! I think I will live vicariously through you until I can figure something out for myself. Undecided I know all about the soul stealing...

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Yay that's awesome! More money AND more life. Both plusses =]

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    Yay! Yay! Yay!

    A good work situation helps so much.

     
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    missomally    July 11, 2009   Missouri

    Congrats Mandy!!  I changed jobs 7 months before our wedding.  Best decision I ever made!  It was a little scary asking for time off for a destination wedding and a honeymoon at a brand new job, but they knew I was engaged and planning a wedding when they interviewed me and we worked everything out. 

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    That's so exciting! I'm super jealous, cause I'd LOVE to quit my job. It would be a total shock to everyone, but I'd work my 2 weeks so no harm, no foul. But that's awesome you got to, and yay for spending more time with your FI!

     

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