Post # 1
Today, my mom was on the phone with her very selfish (I won’t go on out of respect for my family) sister. I said, "Are you coming to my wedding?" … just joking around, and she said to my mom that her daughter has her first competition on my wedding date. My mom looked all concerned and I walked away.
This woman really just upsets my mom all the time- thank god she lives across the country. I remember when I first got engaged and my mom said that "She better come (her sister) because they went all the way their for them when the son graduated highschool." … I was like, really, I don’t care if they come.
Her husband, (the sisters) called my mom and said "Are we invited." About my wedding, yet they’ve never called me once to even say, "Hey CONGRATS."
I just don’t want my mother to be upset and this woman is sure to cause some kind of weird drama.
Post # 3
I am sorry you have a rotten aunt. I have them too, so I feel you. I know it is hard to deal with them but since they are family we sometimes just have to suck it up and it is soo hard to do. Just keep in mind that it will be your wedding day and your mom will be so overjoyed and most likly running around like crazy that hopefully her sister wont be able to get to her. I was really suprised at my sisters wedding, all of the aunts that we avoid due to that drama stepped up and were helpful and put differences aside for the day. Hopefully your aunt will do the same.
Post # 4
I’m sorry that your moms sister is like that. There is always one in every family.
I say don’t stress about it. Treat it like they will be attending (for your moms sake since she wants her there) and if they come they come, if they don’t make sure your mom isint upset because this should be a very special happy day for you! dont let they aunt take away from it
Post # 5
She is soo rotten. I was fuming over this- but now I will let it go. How dare she even talk about my wedding and cause drama when really she doesn’t care … obviously she doesn’t because she hasn’t even said one word to me … like call and say something … right?
Good thing I have wedding bee! Thank you for letting me vent and giving me advice.