I REALLY Don't Want More Than One Shower…

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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479 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@sarahmichelle:  You’re not being selfish. I would be extremely uncomfortable with the idea, just like you. Just put your foot down, and if your FI can talk to his mother it may help as well. She might think you are being “polite” by not wanting too much fuss. But maybe he can tell her that it will make you uncomfortable and maybe convince her it’s a good time to get everyone together or something.

Good luck!

Post # 4
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1448 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I felt the same way you did! I really didn’t know most of my husbands family and felt weird having two showers. So I had one, really large shower. My MIL wasnt fond if it at all because she wanted to invite every single female invited to the wedding. Just be firm, out your foot down and try to be nice about it. MIL’s can be difficult but this is your wedding and hopefully your mom can talk with her some more to get her to agree. Good luck!

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