- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
My RSVPs were do back on the 14th. I had 2 people left that I was waiting on at that time who I emailed a few days after reminding them that the RSVPS were due the 14th, but I would strecth it out till the 21st for them. I knew the 2 of them were both in the process of moving so I understood.
The one texted me and told me she was sorry and wasnt going to make it.
The other I heard nothing from. So I texted her yesterday just asking if she got my email. I know she doesnt always check it, so I wanted to make sure. No response. Later that night I sent her a message on facebook as I know she is always on there, just making sure she got my email or text and I definitely needed an RSVP by the 21st because I’m giving the head counts on the 23rd to start paying.
She just texts me now from a different number (so she didnt get my text) saying she was sorry it took so long to respond. So I asked if I would be seeing her in 23 days.
Her response – “I really hope so .. put me as confirmed”
Do you not realize that I have to PAY FOR YOU if you say you are coming, even if you dont actually show up??
I texted her back saying that wasnt exactly the answer I was looking for and its alot of money to pay for an “I hope so”
So she texts me back “Alright, put me as no then because money may be an issue.”
WTF. RSVP’s were due back the 14th. I stretched it for you to be nice. Then you still dont even know.
I sent out my Save The Dates quite a few months ago. Its not like this is just something that happened over night.
Whatever. One less person to pay for and more money for the honeymoon lol