I REALLY need HELP!!!!

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

What town does he live in?  How old is he?  And have you tried asking your mom again, now that you’re pregnant?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I mean, if you want to look him up, I bet you would probably need a PI.  If you want to, it’s one thing, but I don’t think its necesarry for your pregnancy.  Plenty of people have children without knowing their family medical history. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@June232012:  So he would have graduated from his high school in 1979, 1980, 1981, 1982, or maybe 1983.  What school did he go to?  

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@June232012:  Good luck!  Now I feel like a stalker.  =)

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@peachacid:  Good work! I fancy myself a pretty good internet sleuth but I don’t think I could have solved something that quickly! 

 

@June232012:  First, congratulations on your pregnancy, what an exciting (and emotional!) time! Just so you know you’re not alone, I was in a similar situation. In addition to not having any medical history for my father, my mom was adopted so I didn’t have any medical history there either. I had two healthy pregnancies and two healthy babies and not having medical history was never a big issue. 

As for the curiousity about your biological father, I’ve been there, too. It took me years but I finally got the courage to call him on the phone. The conversation didn’t go quite as I expected but it did alleviate a lot of the curiosity I’d had for all those years. So, if you choose to contact him, I wish you the best of luck. <3

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