I really want to do this whole thing right…help me get off on the right foot

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
25 posts

I think it’s fine to ask FI’s sister, rather than someone from your family, to be your MOH.  You have known her a long time and I’m sure she’ll do a great job.

I would hesitate to ask the girl your FI used to be involved with.  Keep in mind that most wedding events, like the engagement party, bachelorette party and reception itself often involve alcohol, so if she will be drinking I’d hate for her to ruin the fun or make things awkward.  Perhaps just keep your bridal party at 3, and ask the other girl to do a reading at the ceremony so she still feels like she’s part of things.

Post # 4
1839 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

as far as the first girl, i don’t think it’s disrespectful to her, but if youre already not sure if you should ask her, I wouldn’t.


as far as asking his sister as the MOH, i think that’s fine too. regardless of whether other people say,  since you already asked her it’s a little late to be asking it it’s ok

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