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I REALLY want to throw away my pomanders but...

posted 2 years ago in Flowers
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    Osakagrl    May 8th 2010   Sacramento , CA

    I feel SO GUILTY if I were to get rid of the pomanders after spending about 60 dollars in supplies. I just have never been crazy about any flower....real or fake. and then i never intended on having any flower in the first place. but then i kind of got shoved into making SOMETHING for my bridesmaids as i HAVE to HAVE flowers because thats a WEDDING *sarcasm* but I really didnt want to do it in the first place. and then my friend made a very good point, that if i didnt like them i should scrap them and use them for something else. I will see the pics forever and it will bother me if I see something that I didnt like.

     

    What should I do?? Im so torn between my practical side and my "do what I want" side ...

     
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    rlsulli1598@verizon.net       oregon

    Maybe you could sell them in classified???  And do what you want!

     
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    GFoxBride    July 2010  

    What do they look like?  If you can find somewhere else to use them I'd definitely do that - otherwise selling them is a great idea!

     
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    Osakagrl    May 8th 2010   Sacramento , CA

    I think selling would be out....as they arent exactly the most well crafted things...another reason why i dont like them.

    my bridesmaid ( 1 of 2) is giving me lip for wanting to get rid of them. and its so stressfull!! :(

     
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    GFoxBride    July 2010  

    Tell your bridesmaid to shut it :) hehe...sorry if that sounds snappy!  It's YOUR wedding, and as a bridesmaid she's supposed to support your choices.  I'd just throw them out.  It's not worth stressing over the $60.

     
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    Ember78    December 15, 2012  

    Don't let anyone force you into anything you don't want or that doesn't fit your vision. If they don't like it, too bad. They can do things their own way when it is their turn to get married. You (hopefully) only get married once so you should not regret or be stressed out by any choice and it shouldn't fit anyone's vision but that of you and your fiance.

     

    The classified section is a great idea because then someone else may be able to use what you don't want.

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Do you know anyone in your area that's getting married, or having some sort of party?  If so, maybe you can gift them and you'll feel good because you'll know they went to a good home! :)

     

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