I ruined it

posted 2 years ago in Proposals
Post # 2
1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

honeybear212:  Darn that is awkward. So sorry. I would feel pretty crappy too, but I don’t think you did anything wrong!

I think it’s important to be able to talk about stuff. I would just find a moment to acknowledge what happened, let him say what it was like for him, just get the elephant in the room out in the open. Let him know how you were feeling, that he was thinking a very nice thing, and that you were in the moment and had limited time to figure out what you wanted and communicate that. That maybe it wasn’t what you would do if you had time to plan how you would react to that situation. And then let him know what you just said, that no matter what happened, you want to marry him, and you’ll be ready when it happens. 

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