I seriously have diarrhea of the mouth! (Please excuse the expression)

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1634 posts
Bumble bee

@FutureMrsJefferson:  it is IMPOSSIBLE to not get the wedding bug with all the wedding shows and while helping your friend plan hers! My advice is to focus on your friends wedding and try not to think much about the “when it’s my turn” part too much. If you think you’re going a little overboard, just make a conscious effort to talk about it ONLY with your friend. That’s all I have for advice, sorry, I know it probably doesn’t help much!

Post # 4
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1137 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Welcome to the hive! 😀

I have the same problem. Maybe not like that, but my best friend is marrying 6 months before me (Nov 24th) and I just want to SHUT UP at all about my stuff until her wedding is over.

Post # 5
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38 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Victorian Gardens

If you get any advice, let me know because I can’t shut up about getting engaged/being married either! What’s worse? I know my SO has the ring!!! It’s in his nightstand in our bedroom!!! So much torture and anxiety everytime I walk in my own room :/

Post # 6
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258 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@FutureMrsKap:  +++100000.

 

Yeah, let me know when you find the cure.. S/O has the ring.. Long Distance.. Won’t see him for 22 more days. I AM DYING INSIDE.

Post # 8
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6200 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

@FutureMrsJefferson:  … I didn’t =( I just had to consciously refrain from talking about it!

Post # 9
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1721 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Suggestions:

Make a private pinterest board and put your ideas, thoughts, and stuff there instead of talking about them.

Channel your energy into other things- take a pottery class, learn a language, go to the gym, etc

 

Post # 10
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258 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@FutureMrsJefferson:  Join the waiting bee board and the shut it up pact and just waste your “freak out times” exploring the bee…. thats really the only advice I can give you.. The only thing keeping me sane is the bee.

 

I really give props to those +1 year waiting game etc for proposals.. I dont know how the heck they do it.. 

Post # 12
Member
258 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@FutureMrsJefferson:  I look forward to hearing more from you and the “take you off the list” day! <3

Post # 15
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2052 posts
Buzzing bee

@FutureMrsJefferson:  First of all, welcome to the HIVE!

And for me, joining the shut it up pact helps me a lot.  There’s a lot of us waiting bees in there who talk about creative ways to refrain, from countdown apps to venting frustrations lol.  

It’s hard to not talk about it when you are pre-engaged…it’s an exciting time in life and your relationship!

Good Luck!

Post # 16
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422 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Rebar

@FutureMrsJefferson:  ooo advice on how not obsseses u got me there! Lol I recently became a waiting bee but honestly it’s been so hard not to talk about it!!!! But I try my best to keep my mouth shut with my SO! Lol I have Pinterest, I have an account with theknot! And of course wedding bee 🙂 (which honestly has helped a lot!! With my waiting frustration and also hearing other stories that I relate to!) anytime u feel down and blue let us know 🙂 we will all be  encouraging u Throught it!! Hope this helps a bit!

welcome to the bee hive!!!!!!

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