posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: How to deal with the rudeness (for fun none of these seriously an option!)
    Looney toons style with an anvil! (or piano your prefrence) : (5 votes)
    17 %
    Claim the mothership wont allow us to get married or i have to go back to mars! : (1 votes)
    3 %
    hand an acme bomb to everyone on the street who asks (hahaha ive been watching looneytoons today) : (1 votes)
    3 %
    Drink the worlds biggest Margarita (strawberry flavored yum!) and forget the word marriage! : ) : (23 votes)
    77 %
  • Post # 3
    9618 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    that is really frustrating! I am confused about what it has to do with someone’s kids?

    Post # 4
    4327 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    @Jacqui90:  It’s an expression. She’s saying her friends have no home training.

    Post # 5
    205 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @Jacqui90:  lol, i was confused about that too.


    Your friends and family need a serious boundary check and I can’t believe you aren’t invited to the reuinion when you guys have been together so long, that’s very rude of his family.

    Post # 6
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Everybody will have something to say.

    And as for your mom, you can add that your sister is on the “second” marriage and the first didn’t work out, so who knows if the second one will last, so getting engaged within a year or two isn’t a good idea now is it? What a waste of money if she spent anything on the first wedding…

    As for your friend who wants to butt in and put the fire under your SO’s butt, I would ask him if he has any idea of how that makes you feel when asked all the time?

    (Anyways, I have to bring the dogs out or they will so their business in the apartment… sorry… LOL)

    Post # 8
    3375 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I’m sorry if you feel like people were bugging you to get engaged.

    The other day Darling Husband told me he “just wanted to sit my cousins down and tell them how great marriage is and how they needed to hurry up and propose already.” I laughed SO hard because I was a waiting bee! I think a lot of married people are just happily married and want others to be that way too?

    Post # 11
    2494 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @kansas_nurse:  I feel you on the house thing! It sucks. Darling Husband and I lied about being engaged to get houses too. For some reason (even at 25 and 30), wanting to rent a home as a “couple” is much different than as an engaged couple.

    I don’t get it.

    Post # 13
    2494 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @kansas_nurse:  Oh I understand. My Darling Husband and I found this house as a couple with two dogs. The house itself, we hate, but can you imagine trying to beat the “boyfriend/girlfriend” stigma AND having two large dogs? That was nearly impossible. We ended up living at our parents homes seperately for a bit as we searched.

    They technically are not supposed to do that here, (there are laws that say landlords cannot discriminate based on your relationship and cannot refuse the right to rent to someone who has a dog), but it takes years to get through court and isn’t worth anyone’s time to complain.

    I suggest using it like us– as a TON of motivation to save up to buy a house!

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