- 4 years ago
- Wedding: February 2014
I recently got a promotion and raise at work, we have been throwing around ideas how to celebrate once he gets back from his internship this coming week. I suggested we go out to a great steak house, get a bit dressed up and just enjoy the night out together since it has been a few months apart. He really loves that idea but he said he would do anything that I want for that day even getting pedicures. I kinda laughed that off because he’s not that type of man, I’ve asked him before when I go to the spa (like twice a year) and he says he would never do it. I suggested a few other ideas but he keeps going back to us getting pedicures and now he’s all over doing a spa day, having cocktails and having dinner at my favorite french restuarant. Now I know he has been working a ton of overtime this summer, averaging 70 hour work weeks but he has said that he has spent it on random stuff which is fine its his money and normally really responsible so him splurging on himself doesnt bother me. He has scheduled our spa day already, couples massage, mani, pedi, facials even hair and makeup for me, but its the weekend after we go home to spend a few days with my family!!! He wanted to go back and see my parents, hes never seen my hometown but has met the family. He says he just wants to enjoy a relaxing weekend and celebrate some things that he missed this summer especailly my parents 35th wedding anniversary and my grandparents 58th wedding anniversary. Am I crazy to think that he’s using this time to get my ring, I have one I love back home, and parent’s permission for the proposal?