(Closed) I think I have Baby Fever… HELP!!!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
Member
853 posts
Busy bee

I don’t have any children of my own, but I can sympathize regarding the post-wedding blues and baby fever. I thought for sure I would be waiting at LEAST a year or two after the wedding before TTC. But as soon as the wedding was over, I started thinking I wanted one (it’s been a month!) It’s almost like “okay, that wedding was FANTASTIC—what’s next??” My best advice (to both you and myself) is to wait. Wait 6 months and if the feeling is still there, then I’d say it’s more than post-wedding blues! I’m the type of person who always has to have something to look forward to, but having a baby for that reason alone isn’t great! lol. I think the feeling you have after the wedding (ie. strong love, deep connection, starting your life together….) all of those things might equate to BABY, but I want to also listen to the practical voice in my head, to make sure that it’s a well thought out decision and that we are ready on all other levels as well (financially etc.)

Post # 5
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1934 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@MrsACarpenter:  I agree with @jules28: !  Wait a few months and revisit the idea.  DH and I have been married less than a month, and are 4 months pregnant (the wedding had already been planned when we became pregnant – it was not a surprise)…and let me tell you….it’s a LOT to handle at once.  I’m still getting over my post-wedding bliss (and financial toll the wedding took on us) + pre-baby stress = one hot mess of a mama to be.  Lol!  

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