Post # 1
This all started about a year ago, FI and I were going to be in different states as I was starting masters degree. We were sitting in the bakery and I knew something was up. I trust him completely and I know he would never do anything so I waited for him to tell me. He waiting until we got home because he wasn’t sure how I would react. His ex girlfriend who he hasn’t talked to in 8 years told him that she would be his mistress while I’m gone or he could just leave me for her. They share a large friend circle from high school including his brother so she easily has access to information about him and us. He said nothing to prompt this, she came out of no where. He told him after he said no that he should just ask me as any girl would want their man to be happy and she thought she was hotter and better than me to begin with. Well FI informed me that after that it wasnt happening with her and had already called his carrier to have her blocked. He looked so upset just telling me this that I know he couldn’t truly cheat or Lie. Fast forward to this weekend and we run into her at the store while out. Actually she ran into him alone. She was basically holding him hostage and was groping him in the aisle. He had pushed her away and told her to leave. I entered at the end and she decided to tell me that he kissed her and that our engagement is over. I know that didn’t happen but what kind of a person does that to someone and then lies to his fiancé. right after it happened we grabbed our cart and left the store. I feel she wants to just cause drama and I’m happy I remained calm enough I didn’t smack her.
Post # 3
I would check into this much further. No wonder he looks upset (whether he’s interested in her or not) apparently something is coming out of the woodwork. How did she learn that you are going to be away in the first place, especially if He hasn’t talked to her in 8 years? Really?
It’s very hard to believe, after a year’s time from last contact, which supposedly happened after a whole 8 years hiatus that he was attacked by her in the middle of a store.
And I work professionally with people in mental health crisis, so this is coming from someone who has seen people do some outrageous things. Cheaters are always trustworthy until they get caught the first time.
Post # 4
Some people just like causing drama. Block her from the phones and hopefully your FI doesn’t have any contact with her.
Post # 5
@Zavrazen: they share a group of friends. Some of his best friends and his brother still hang out with her so she has heard everything. He does avoid her because he refuses to go out with them most times because he knows she will eventually end up out with them. They were also facebook friends up until the engagement when he decided to block her because even when they dated all she wanted to do was cause drama between anyone she could and thats why they broke up
Post # 6
Stalker alert. I feel bad for your FI and you. He’s done the right thing so far. If she ever gropes him again in public, he might need to yell loudly to embarrass her.
Post # 7
@Tinatiny1: Thats what I was thinking but she hasnt actively searched him out in person. Normally its just using technology or his friends. I feel we will be shopping near the other end of the town in hopes that we can avoid her.
Post # 8
- Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas
Sounds fishy to me…I wouldn’t lay all the blame at her feet without investigating a bit.