I think I reached that point where I wish I had eloped

posted 3 years ago in Elopement
Post # 3
Member
55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I hear you.  I’m just about a month away and all the “little last minute things” add up quickly.  Just wedding beauty prep costs an arm and a leg.  I am leaving on vacation the very next morning, and I though I had all my finances in check right on budget….until I found out my dog needs surgery now I’m stressing more than I already was.  I originally wanted to elope but didn’t (long story) I’m like you I know my day will be amazing I just don’t want to go in debt by having it.  I wish you luck and know your day will be incredible 

Post # 5
Member
789 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I hear ya. It’s a little different for me because I’m already married due to immigration paperwork but I’m having a big wedding and because most people dont know I have to pretend like Im not married and this is it. This last week has made me really want to spill the beans and just be over it but I know it’ll cause more drama then there already is so keeping my mouth shut it is. 

I just want to wear my dress and get drunk and not care anymore. 

Post # 6
Member
1560 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@wisher558:  I just want to wear my dress and get drunk and not care anymore. 

YES! That is where I’m at as well!! Found out tonight FI invited 4 people to the wedding without telling me. He verbally said something like “hey bro, wanna come to my wedding?” and then says to me “Oh yeah I forget to mention that to you”. DEEP BREATH IN….

Post # 7
Member
789 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@AirForceWife78:  I actually said to SO the other day why didn’t we just elope? Oh wait! We did….  

I’m going to go buy a yoga game for the Wii tomorrow I think. I can’t do another month of this stress. I’m realllllllllly glad I made a massage appointment for the thursday before the wedding!

Post # 8
Member
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I feel the same.  Everything is adding up and there is still so much to do!!!  I looked up Vegas elopment packages the otehr day!

 

@AirForceWife78:  I’m pretty sure my FI verbally invited a ton of people to our wedding!  I’m still not sure how many.  I only find out when someone texts or emails me asking when the wedding date is or saying they haven’t received any information.  Our venue only fits 100 people max!  I told FI to clarify this with everyone he invited.

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