(Closed) I think I ruined our honeymoon plans.

posted 8 years ago in Honeymoons
Post # 3
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990 posts
Busy bee

*hugs hugs* I would let the situation cool off for a little while – like you said you both still have bad tastes in your mouth because of it. Then maybe ask him how he feels planning the honeymoon the way he wanted to do it … and promise not to peak or say anything because you know he will make it AMAZING for you because he’s doing things with you in mind!

Post # 4
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898 posts
Busy bee

Definately give him time to cool off, and let him know that you really didn’t mean anything by it. Even if your honeymoon wasn’t what you had envisioned, you have the rest of your lives together to go somewhere tropical. And isn’t that the whole point of it all? Maybe if you put it to him that way, he’ll be more open to planning again.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

As the ladies said, I’d leave it alone for a lil bit.  Then I’d bring it up at another time and apologize for making it seem that you didn’t trust him to make your honeymoon wonderful.  In the end, he’ll plan something that you’ll both love.  But I understand your saying something.  The honeymoon is for both of you to enjoy so you should both be on the same page.  That’s why we planned together, one less fight!  :o)

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

aww, I totally know how you feel, this happens with us all the time. In fact, I acknolwedged that I like to get my hands into things when sometimes I just need to learn to let go. As such, FI is planning our honeymoon and I fear we will end up in a similar situation. In my experience, no matter how long you wait the situation will always be tainted. I would suggest picking a completely new honeymoon location and either planning togethere or giving him full trust.

Post # 7
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

oh my hugs. I know my fi is in charge of the honey moon as a suprize for me and has been very emotional about it. This is his part of the wedding to plain and boy does he ever want it to be good. If i make any suggestions he says thigs like fine do you want to do it  with sad eyes lol and Im like no. Maybe you can beg him to go back to his plains I donlt know i just know this is a really big freakin deal to my man and it sounds like it was to yours and when we put are 10cents in we feel horrible and they feel like their horrible. I would just tell him that you want his honey moon he planned it and that is romantic and special to you you can do your plains as a seperate vacay later.

Post # 8
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Newbee

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