- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
long time since I last posted, but I have some good news! I have successfully not brought up the subject in a month, and Monday, my best friend since middle school went through a break up (They dated six years and broke up because the guy was not even thinking about their future).
Mr. Right and I had a totally great discussion. IDR who brought up the topic exactly, but i remember saying “I’m not worried about getting married at all right now, That can wait.” And he was like “huh?” So i elaborated and said “I just cannot wait to be able to call you my fiancee, I want to be taken seriously when I tell someone that we’re high school sweethearts who will get married when we can, the wedding isn’t a big deal to me, being proposed to is the most romantic thing that a guy can do!”
He slipped up and said “well, I’ve had several opportunities before, but something always happens.” I replied “Well, it’d be kind of hard to propose the way you want to without a ring ((referring to all the ring shopping we’ve done)).” and he abruptly stopped talking. so of course I was like…. “Do you already have one???” and he said “No, and I wouldn’t tell you if I did.”
Later, before bed he mentioned that he had a new plan, and this one couldn’t get screwed up, because he could always recreate the moment.
Our 5 year anniaversary is on the 27th, and we are going to see a play at the local university. We love this theater, and have several other plays on our agenda this fall/winter. I have my fingers crossed ladies!!!!! :-DDDD