Post # 1
So yesterday M and I were chatting and I said I should just propose and he said well why don’t you. And I said, M will you marry me. And he didn’t answer. And then I said well you didn’t answer so he said yes of course. So still thinking he was kidding I asked him today were we engaged and he was like well yeah you asked didn’t you…. and i was like well does this mean we can start planning? and he was like if you want to… but then we talked about rings etc and he was like well i cannot afford to get you one right now and i reminded him that i didn’t care about it…
so i am engaged i think?!
Post # 3
Congrats, then! Now who the hell is going to keep the Waiting list?!
I think you’re engaged!
Post # 4
LOLOL! COngrats I think?!!!!
Post # 5
- Wedding: September 2010 - Heron Hill Winery
Oh YAY! I think tehehee I hope that you are you have been in the wait long enough!!! At least this way you can go and pick the perfect ring together!
Post # 6
Holy crap! Well, if you decide that you truly are engaged, CONGRATS!!!
Post # 7
Eeeee! But crebre you can’t leave it like that if you didn’t even know you were proposing for real. Maybe you can get him an awesome ring from etsy and propose a bit more romantically? And maybe he can get you a nice ring for a couple hundred dollars and you can swing right into planning?
That’s wonderful though, that M is clearly ready to get married if a bit confused on engagements and how to do this.
Post # 8
YES, YES, YES!!!
If he doesn’t get down on one knww it doesn’t make you any less engaged.
When SO and I decided to get engaged it was a very informal thing, I told him I wanted to marry him and he said “you can start telling people we’re getting married”. HAH! Cut to one year later I wanted a “real” proposal so he formally asked me and now we’re picking out my ring!
Post # 9
Oh yes, go pick out a ring or two rings together. Now that you’re engaged and all!
Post # 10
YAYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats so exciting!!
Post # 11
- Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas
CONGRATULATIONS!! (I think, hehe)
Sounds to me like you’re engaged…the ring isn’t absolutely necessary. The most important part is that someone asks and the other person says yes! 🙂
Post # 12
oh my goodness glory!
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! That’s awesome!
I’d say it sounds like it’s time to set a date. You go girl!
ps – but now who will be in charge of Mattel’s list? ;P
Post # 13
I don’t think we’re engaged though?! I dunno.. But we did look for his engagement gift (a laptop). I think that I don’t know. I will confirm later on today… but it was a very us moment, I jumped into his lap and gave him a big kiss and he grinned but I dunno… (shrugging shoulders). I actually like a lot of rings that etsy has and he doesn’t like any of them. It was so cute and really an us type of conversation. A really relaxed type of convo, because I know he’s stressing about finances, being laid off and dealing with the family law attys etc. so I was like babe I don’t need a ring to be your wife this is so silly. I should just propose since you seem to think I need all of these “things”. i mean i found an eternity band that i forgot i had (it was a christmas gift from my play sister years ago) i was like i could just wear it on my finger i like to stack it anyway. (it’s currently stacked on my right hand)… i feel sooo much more relaxed if that makes sense. i still don’t care about the ring thing, i love the stackable idea because i have a “thing” for jewelry and will probably constantly be changing everything out anyway….
so i will keep the waiting list until it’s official…
Post # 14
I happened to log on (it’s been forever!) and see your post – congrats!!!!
Post # 15
I think Congrats! are in order….but since you ended your post title with “I think,” is there something that would make you remove those words?
Post # 16
@lily: hey i missed ya!!!! and i will hold off on thanking everyone until it’s official… wow this is kind of cool though…