I think I'm finally there…vent

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1599 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I think this is what we call “the breaking point.”  Do what’s best for you. I don’t know your specific situation (like if you live together, etc) but I would say give it a few days so you can have a rational conversation breaking it off.  It’s only fair to let him know, but you don’t need to “work it out” if you don’t want to!

Post # 4
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752 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Many times! Not with my fiancé though of course. it sounds like the relationship has run its course and it’s time to move on. 

Post # 5
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11300 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Do what’s best for you, hon. I’ve been at this point with my ex, and a month or so before I broke up with him, I went and found an apartment, signed a lease, and started moving my stuff out while he was at work.

Relationships do take work, but they should NOT take as much work as you’ve been doing. That’s ridiculous. 

Post # 6
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MrsWe:  I have hit that point (but not with DH). He worked nights, so I would sneak out while he was sleeping until I found a place, and started moving out while he was sleeping or at work!

I did NOT need closure–I needed OUT!

Post # 7
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929 posts
Busy bee

@MrsWe:  HUGS. I’m sorry you’ve reached this point, but it’s also kinda good you have. It might be a good time for you to chill and spend some time on yourself 🙂

Post # 8
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370 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Been there. And that is why he is my ex. I never regretted leaving him and I never felt the need to explain it to him either. He either knew me well enough to see what had gone wrong or didn’t know me well enough understand my reasoning.

Post # 9
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2319 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m sorry you’ve reached this point, but do what you need to do for yourself.

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