- 3 years ago
It all started 3 years ago when he was living with his mom. One day I decided to help him clean his room. I found around 8 bottle of 1,5L of beer 10.1%. I was shocked because i didnt know that he drank that much. But this doesnt ment that he had a problem.
2 years ago, he got arrested because he was drunk in his car in a parking lot.
Last year he moved by himself, and I when to visit often, Everytime that he would pick me up, he would have to stop at the cornerstore, I didnt know why, and It was imperatif for him to do so. Several time that we were almost home, he would go back to the corner store. I then realised that he had do buy his 1,5 L of beer
Last july, we moved in together, I told him that i thought that he had a problem with alcohol, he said that he doesnt drink that much. few months after that, I called for help in our area and i gave my BF some numbers to call for help. He said that he would call, but he doesnt want to stop drinking, he only wants to drink less. I was happy that he finally realised that he had a problem. He never called any of the numbers… He just decided to stop beer and drink 1L of wine instead.
Since we have been living togheter, he runs everyday to the grocerystore, before 11pm to buy a type of alcohol, that he would sneek in his studio or on the balcony. I guess he doesnt want me to see how much he is drinking, but i can see that there is a lot of bottles scattered in those 2 places.
I had to ask him not to drink one night so we could spend quality time… I shouldnt have to ask him that…
4-5 days int he weel he is tipsy or drunk (cannot stand straight on his feet) Every weekend he goes out and comes home drunk.
He didnt eat this week end he only drank alcohol .
I cannot stand him when he is drunk, he disgust me, Plus it makes him snore so i end up sleeping on the couch when reaches the bed ( because most of the time he passes out on the couch)
I love him, but i HATE him when he drinks. So much that it is hard for me to have a drink with him when we go out. I havent talk to anyone about this execpt the person i called for alcoholic help and one frend back in july.
I dont know what to do, how to help him.He is never abusif to me. The only problem is that he is hurting himself and our relashionship