(Closed) I think my SO is having fun

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
140 posts
Blushing bee


He wants to get MARRIED next month, or engaged??

Your guy moves quick, lol ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
335 posts
Helper bee

well, that is confusing! it sounds like he’s mobilized some kind of plan into action, but the ambiguous (and really quickly approaching!) dates make it sound less planned. or maybe he just has no idea what exactly he wants in a wedding and he’s just too excited about the woman he loves to think straight.

i would sit tight until the holidays are through just in case he’s got a surprise planned and maybe after the air as cleared from holiday confusion approach the subject from a more logistically realistic point of view. possibly mention that a month isn’t usually enough time to plan an entire wedding. <_<

Post # 5
1903 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think this man moves fast, and if one minute he tells you no ring because of bills etc, but then wants to marry you next month, I would just wait a few more weeks and see what happens. Chances are if he has seen a ring he likes, he’s planning/has got you that ring already, in which case he wouldn’t be able to fund his bills, and would be able to propose within a month

Exciting stuff! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
823 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Is your boyfriend the only person in this relationship? It seems like you let him call all the shots! What about what YOU want? If YOU want a big wedding, or a reception after a courthouse wedding, I think that is something you should talk to him about. He wants to marry you next month, maybe, but what do you think about that? Would you want a longer engagement? Would you like to plan a small wedding in a few months? I know a lot of women like to let the guy take charge when it comes to the proposal, but planning both the proposal and possible quick marriage afterwards seems a little greedy. Sorry, I don’t know your personal situation, but that was just my initial reaction. You deserve the best! 

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