- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Hi bees, this one might be a bit long.
So, I have been planning my wedding and today we went and met with some rental people and discussed decor and all of that, which turned out great and I was excited about it! So when one of my bridesmaids (best friends) talked to me online today, I got excited and was telling her about our appointment and about some other wedding details. She didn’t say anything. She changed the subject and started talking about her new boyfriend and what they were talking about on the phone, and how he’s going to be gone for two weeks but this and that, blah blah blah, how happy she is with him, yada yada.
This is getting annoying. Everytime I try and talk to her, she’s either stuck up his butt, or her other best friends butt, that she either ignores me when I’m talking to her and changes the subject or acts un-interested, or she ignores me completely when she is with either of them. I’m so fed up! I don’t want to say anything to her about it because I have and it didn’t really do any good. She’s opinionated and immature (sorry to say it) but it’s so aggravating!
And another thing, I told my bridesmaids 8 months in advance that they have to buy their own dresses, but if they absolutely cannot get their dress, my mom would be willing to help out. My mother doesn’t have a lot of money because of all of her medical expenses and so on, but she said she would help anyway which is really nice. Well, this bridesmaid who goes out to eat at places like Olive Garden and Applebees every single day (no exaggeration) as well as the movies, swimming, shopping, etc. told me today that she probably won’t be able to buy her dress in August. WTF! Are you kidding me!?!? I could understand if she paid tons of bills and had no money to go out on, but she is constantly going out and doing things, more than I do, and I go pretty often! It’s just ridiculous to me, because she could easily save the money! And to expect my mom, who isn’t rich by any means, to pay for her dress when she has a job and can afford everything else in the world, just seems rude, especially when I told her this 8 months in advance!
I know I got off topic a bit, but here’s what bothers me about the others….they never ask about my planning, or what’s going on, how I’m doing, etc. They never call me or email me, I’m always the one to make plans. It’s so upsetting. You would think that you’re best friends would put forth effort to see how your wedding is coming along, etc. etc. but I get nothing. I’m always asking them about their lives, yet they totally ignore mine, what gives? Are people just born to be inconsiderate and rude these days? seriously!
Anyway, I’m done rambling, just had to get it off my chest. Thanks for listening bees! And I’m glad that I have nice people to vent to! 🙂