- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
…but then his mom got engaged. So, as I have said on another board I have posted before, but someone that I know quite well also uses these boards and I feel that I need a sense of anomenity to continue posting on these forums.
I am happy for his mom, but this comes just after my SO and my talk about being patient, and waiting until it is the right time for us (not just because everyone around us is getting engaged atm). *Sigh* Our relationship has felt fairly organic thus far, moving to the next stages as feels natural, unrushed and unforced. I agree that waiting until he is ready is absolutely the right decision; I refuse to pull-out threats and ultimatums. I want to be with him forever, so waiting a couple more years (until I am done with school) isn’t really a huge deal in the context of spending the rest of our lives togeather.
We know that we are going to get married and raise a family togeather. We talk about wedding plans, and our marriage all of the time. We refer to one another as husband and wife withien our home, and boyfriend/girlfriend outside of such. We love one another, and nothing can change this.
I just want to be able to 1. Be happy for his mom, without being jealous of the engagement/marriage, and 2. Be able to take that next step with my SO.