i used OPK Wondfo what does this mean?

posted 2 years ago in TTC
  • poll: OPK at highest
    yes : (2 votes)
    25 %
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  • Post # 2
    3731 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    cdpslh913059487:  I’m really not trying to be mean, but I think you need a reality check. Are you or are you not 19, unemployed, living with your parents, engaged to a guy who owes several thousand dollars in back taxes and “doesn’t want to pay them,” and already have one child? Please, for the sake of the hypothetical child in question, DO NOT try to have another kid right now. Get a job, get your own home, get your fiance’s taxes sorted out, then in a few years try for another kid when you are both capable of taking care of yourselves.

    Post # 4
    588 posts
    Busy bee

    I’m having a really hard time trying to parse your question, but if it was, “Am I about to ovulate?” The answer is, “Probably”. 

    Contact Wondfo for clarification on how to use the test or googe “Wondfo OPK”.

    Could you get pregnant if you have sex two days from now? Potentially. You aren’t in any rush to conceive though, so don’t worry about missing this cycle.

    Post # 5
    11668 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    No you shouldn’t BD for about a week.

    Post # 6
    2831 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    you can get pregnant at any time. don’t depend on a pee test to tell you when you can get pregnant.

    also, i’m with s2bmrscook. you are in no place ready to have a second child. yes, you found a job. yes, you have somewhere to live. but your FI still has debt. you don’t seem stable enough to bring a second child into this world. i’m not saying this to be mean, i’m saying this to be honest.

    Post # 8
    1157 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    cdpslh913059487:  Isn’t this the same guy who you said a couple months back:

    “and sometimes he tells me he doesnt like my child because he gets on his nerves and makes his anixety worse.”

    He actually wants another??

    Post # 9
    6788 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

    cdpslh913059487:  I agree with above. Why are you trying to conceive now when you’re planning your wedding for next summer? I can’t imagine you’ll be able to pay your medical bills and also feed 100 people for $3/plate like you wanted with a new baby. How do you pay for your child now? Do you get some kind of child support or government assistance?Why do you want to have a baby with someone that doesn’t even like your child? This doesn’t bode well for him being a father or even a father figure… 


    ETA: Some of the things you’ve said: 

    “i have broken up with him once becuase he wasn’t trying and didn’t want to do anything with my child.he said he would change.so far it’s ok.om just worried he doesn’t want any of this.he blows money and doesn’t save at all.he said we would have to live at my parents so we can save up for a house since he doesn’t want to rent from somewhere.”

    “We also have a lot of debt and tax money that needs to be paid the tax money is his but he doesn’t want to pay it .”

    “Ok so this might be long sorry before hand.My fiance and I have been together for 8 months or so. we got engaged 2 months after being together.i know thats fast but not as fast as some ppl i know.shes 27 now and im 19 now.he lives with his parents and i live with mine. i finally got another job and i start soon.i keep talking about i want us to get a place together.he keeps pushing it off. also is pushing it off when i try to talk about wedding stuff.i ask if he wants to get married even and he says no not right now.i tell him our weddings in 2015 so i hope he is by then i mean we arent getting married this year. and then he tells me  i dont know. we had to return my rings to kay because he couldnt afford the payments.he lives with his parents due to his rusn the family business with his father and brothers who live there too.”

    “he says he loves me very much though. and sometimes he tells me he doesnt like my child because he gets on his nerves and makes his anixety worse.i lvoe him very much and sometimes i feel like i dont know why im with him but at the same time i want to make us work.”

    “but sometimes i hear i dont like him or hes a mean child.which my child is a handful but still it hurts to hear him say he doesnt want him.”

    “hes a child in a lot of ways.i mean he does buy us stuff and thinks its a hassle to take my son out with us because it is hard to be with him out .”


    Do not marry him. Definitely do not have a baby with him. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200…

    Post # 10
    967 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Please no.

    Post # 11
    1437 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I have no words.

    Post # 12
    1157 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    FutureDrAtkins:  I only had the patience to do the one part…

    ALL of these are reasons why you should NOT be trying to have a baby (or plan a wedding) with him!!  Or anyone, really, at this point in time.

    Post # 13
    2576 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    ebarnes0:  This.

    I say this with kindness so please don’t take offense. If your FI truly feels that way about your first child, then you would risk creating a rather hostile environment for your first child. Your FI will most likely favor the second child as that child will be his, and that is very unfair to your son (I believe you mentioned you have a son?). I would sort out your current situation before adding another baby to the mix.


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