Post # 1
So i just got these and tried them a few times but i think im at my highest point now.Im TTC number 2 and that wasnt planned it was a opps im pregnant thing which i love my son just i would of waited.But now im tryign for baby number two.We BD tuesday and wednesday.also sunday and saturday and friday but those are so far off i dont think that matter now.I did OPK this morning around 8:30 then i just tested at 2 pm so these are the pictures.what do you think?my fiance is out of town tonight and maybe tomrrow .Could i BD and stil lget pregnantthis month?
Post # 2
cdpslh913059487: I’m really not trying to be mean, but I think you need a reality check. Are you or are you not 19, unemployed, living with your parents, engaged to a guy who owes several thousand dollars in back taxes and “doesn’t want to pay them,” and already have one child? Please, for the sake of the hypothetical child in question, DO NOT try to have another kid right now. Get a job, get your own home, get your fiance’s taxes sorted out, then in a few years try for another kid when you are both capable of taking care of yourselves.
Post # 3
i just got a job.we got our own place now.he paid a lot back already now. it was 4k now its under 1k.we fixed all of our problems out.
Post # 4
I’m having a really hard time trying to parse your question, but if it was, “Am I about to ovulate?” The answer is, “Probably”.
Contact Wondfo for clarification on how to use the test or googe “Wondfo OPK”.
Could you get pregnant if you have sex two days from now? Potentially. You aren’t in any rush to conceive though, so don’t worry about missing this cycle.
Post # 5
No you shouldn’t BD for about a week.
Post # 6
you can get pregnant at any time. don’t depend on a pee test to tell you when you can get pregnant.
also, i’m with s2bmrscook. you are in no place ready to have a second child. yes, you found a job. yes, you have somewhere to live. but your FI still has debt. you don’t seem stable enough to bring a second child into this world. i’m not saying this to be mean, i’m saying this to be honest.
Post # 8
cdpslh913059487: Isn’t this the same guy who you said a couple months back:
“and sometimes he tells me he doesnt like my child because he gets on his nerves and makes his anixety worse.”
He actually wants another??
Post # 9
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cdpslh913059487: I agree with above. Why are you trying to conceive now when you’re planning your wedding for next summer? I can’t imagine you’ll be able to pay your medical bills and also feed 100 people for $3/plate like you wanted with a new baby. How do you pay for your child now? Do you get some kind of child support or government assistance?Why do you want to have a baby with someone that doesn’t even like your child? This doesn’t bode well for him being a father or even a father figure…
ETA: Some of the things you’ve said:
“i have broken up with him once becuase he wasn’t trying and didn’t want to do anything with my child.he said he would change.so far it’s ok.om just worried he doesn’t want any of this.he blows money and doesn’t save at all.he said we would have to live at my parents so we can save up for a house since he doesn’t want to rent from somewhere.”
“We also have a lot of debt and tax money that needs to be paid the tax money is his but he doesn’t want to pay it .”
“Ok so this might be long sorry before hand.My fiance and I have been together for 8 months or so. we got engaged 2 months after being together.i know thats fast but not as fast as some ppl i know.shes 27 now and im 19 now.he lives with his parents and i live with mine. i finally got another job and i start soon.i keep talking about i want us to get a place together.he keeps pushing it off. also is pushing it off when i try to talk about wedding stuff.i ask if he wants to get married even and he says no not right now.i tell him our weddings in 2015 so i hope he is by then i mean we arent getting married this year. and then he tells me i dont know. we had to return my rings to kay because he couldnt afford the payments.he lives with his parents due to his rusn the family business with his father and brothers who live there too.”
“he says he loves me very much though. and sometimes he tells me he doesnt like my child because he gets on his nerves and makes his anixety worse.i lvoe him very much and sometimes i feel like i dont know why im with him but at the same time i want to make us work.”
“but sometimes i hear i dont like him or hes a mean child.which my child is a handful but still it hurts to hear him say he doesnt want him.”
“hes a child in a lot of ways.i mean he does buy us stuff and thinks its a hassle to take my son out with us because it is hard to be with him out .”
Do not marry him. Definitely do not have a baby with him. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200…
Post # 12
FutureDrAtkins: I only had the patience to do the one part…
ALL of these are reasons why you should NOT be trying to have a baby (or plan a wedding) with him!! Or anyone, really, at this point in time.
Post # 13
I say this with kindness so please don’t take offense. If your FI truly feels that way about your first child, then you would risk creating a rather hostile environment for your first child. Your FI will most likely favor the second child as that child will be his, and that is very unfair to your son (I believe you mentioned you have a son?). I would sort out your current situation before adding another baby to the mix.