- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
The title of my post may make a few of you wonder how exactly this issue is “babies” related……..
Last summer I dropped 60 lbs. (gained back 10 during the wedding planning but starting to slowly lose it again I am ashamed of the weight gain :(). With the 60 lbs. went all of my much glorified boobs. I went from a 38DDD to a 34C most of which is skin 🙁 yuck. I have 1 child of my own he just turned 3 and we also have 3 other children whom are adopted. Our 3 adopted children all have some special needs which obviously requires alot of time. We have managed it well though and our oldest just turned 15.
Moving back to the boob issue. I so badly want to get my breast done so I can feel comfortable with my body again. I am so self concious now with the way my boobs are like flap jacks. I wear a bra during intercourse. My Darling Husband and I agreed after a second child of our own I can get my boobs done along with a tummy tuck. We agreed on this before I even lost the weight because I knew my boobs would be gone. We wanted to start TTC in Sept of last year but then got engaged now we are married and not to sure when we want to TTC. He thinks I will be putting to much on my plate by having another child now but I really want to get my body fixed and can’t do that until after we have another child. He is also 38 I am in my early 20’s so I am also concerned about his age. I don’t want him to be in his 50’s before all of the kids are out of the house. We are extremely financially stable so that is not an issue at all. What do you all think should I push him to start trying now or just wait and be unhappy with my body for a few more years 🙁 I love that I’m healthier and feel amazing but when I look at myself naked I can’t get passed what my breast look like.
Edit: I have already done my research and actually have a doctor picked out. I have gotten an estimate on price and everything. I have been looking into this for almost a year now.