I want SO to come home but I know he needs to work :(

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@ForeverBirds:  Would his friend be willing to do this daily if he gets the job?

There is no harm in going for it and working things out in the mean time. That is great your SO has been doing little odd jobs to be able to get some income. I know it sucks not seeing him, but at least it shows he is a good provider and willing to do whatever it takes.

If this job is a pay increase, could you possibly budget in an additional car? Doesn’t have to be anything fancy just able to get from A to B.

If the car situation doesn’t work out, then it doesn’t work out and I am sure SO will find something closer just will take a little more time.

This is only temporary.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@ForeverBirds:  That’s tough.  Perhaps you can find people to carpool with.

Or perhaps he can find a very cheap room to rent an hour away and you can see eachother on weekends.  rents in most parts of Alabama are very cheap in comparison and he may be able to send you enough to stay aflot, not ideal.  Maybe he can find someone who’s renting a room in their home for under $400.  With a full time job, he would be able to save alot.

Yes, you miss him, but you may have to live apart for a bit to be able to make it.

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