Post # 1
I’m 24,and I don’t have a boyfriend now. I want to fall in love with someone .I also want to marry someone .I know a few websites sale wedding dresses,and all kinds of dresses for ladies.but,without a boyfriend,I CAN’T BE HAPPY!what’s the use of beautiful dresses ?
Post # 3
Welcome to the hive 🙂 It will happen for you just takes time!
Post # 4
you need to learn to be happy by yourself (i.e. single) before you can be happy in a relationship.
and also, the point of getting married is to share you life with someone else, not just to wear a pretty dress for the day (tho that is a perk, hah).
be patient, have fun, and don’t rush it 🙂
Post # 5
@qianqian: but,without a boyfriend,I CAN’T BE HAPPY!
That something you should work on. You need to be happy for yourself, not dependent on anyone else for your own happiness. Falling in love will come eventually – are you putting yourself out there to meet people in the meantime? What sort of hobbies or activities are you involved in? A lot of the times people meet up via those types of things. But do things that make you happy, not just to find a boyfriend. And if it happens, even better 🙂
Post # 6
Why can’t you be happy without a boyfriend?
Post # 7
In my opinion, you are looking at the proposal/the wedding as a way to get attention to “make you happy.” A wedding is not about the pretty dresses or cake or the reception… it is about the relationship between you and your FI.That is what you need to focus on…after you find a decent man.
Post # 8
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You can totally be happy without a boyfriend! You still have your own life even while in a serious relationship/marriage 🙂
Post # 9
I thought the same thing, but trust me.. Freedom is NOT overrated! I’m engaged, and I’m kind of shocked how I won’t get to move into a loft with a few girlfriends in the middle of the city, never going to be able to make ALL of your decisions by myself, everything!
Now, saying that, I love my Fiancee more than life itself, more than I love anything else in the world! 😛 And I can’t wait to go on all new adventures with him, our wedding, our vacations, our future children, building a house, family, and a life together. This to me is really incredible and what I’m looking forward to! 🙂 And I wouldn’t go back to single life for all the money in the world.
But I really was happy while I was single, anxious, yes, but I regret not enjoying more! So enjoy yourself, be happy, relish in the freedom! You WILL find someone! But it’s true what everyone else is saying; you need to be happy with yourself first before you’ll ever be truly happy with a boyfriend/significant other.
Post # 10
without a boyfriend,I CAN’T BE HAPPY
Um… This worries me a bit. If you can’t be happy on your own, then no amount of men are going to be able to make you happy. Its ok to fantasize about your future wedding day… but the purpose of a wedding to to join two people together for life in the eyes of God, the law, and family and friends. NOT to have a party and wear a pretty dress.
Also, if you can’t be happy without a boyfriend, then what makes you think that you would be happier with a boyfriend? with a boyfriend would only complicate your life. It is unfair to the future boyfriend to be expecting him to make you happy. and if you only think that you can be happy with a man in your life then in my opinion you need to do a bit of soul searching and personal work.
what’s the use of beautiful dresses ?
The use of beautiful dresses is the same as the use of anything beautiful. Its to enjoy – both the wearing of it, and looking at it. Maybe it would be good to buy a pretty dress and go out with friends?
I want to fall in love with someone .I also want to marry someone
Why don’t you start with being friends with someone first. Trust me – its the best way to go. this way you can focus frist on building the friendship and getting to know the person before you also have to work on building a more intimate realationship with them. Take it one relationship at a time. 🙂
Post # 11
Love will find YOU when you stop looking for it, and you least expect it.
When you stop worrying about everyone else, and focus on self-development and respect, life has a funny way of falling into place the way it was always meant to be.
Post # 12
Then go out to meet new people:) and as other said don’t rush it!
Post # 13
I mean this quite seriously, and am not mocking you at all… if you want unconditional love, and a kind companion to be at your side all the time… someone who will never hurt you or break your heart etc etc… then you should get a dog.
Romance etc is not all plain sailing and has lots of upsets in it, even during the best of relationships. Plus, men can smell desperation a mile off. People want to know that they would enhance someone’s life… not be the sole reason for their living!
…. therefore, I suggest a furry companion for the time being. I have a few myself and they’re fantastic!
Post # 14
Rachel631 Nail – head – hammer – you…exactly men are like dogs anyway, give them a cookie and a couple rubs they are yours forever!
Post # 16
@avonleaR: LMAO, that’s what I always say to FI!