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    KimH14    August 14, 2010  

    Ok so i wanted to have a party for us but i didnt want the whole bachelor bachelorette party thing because we arent really the party type and the whole strip club thing defently wouldnt ever happen because we dont believe in that kinda of stuff it truly disgust us both. We look at it as we are still together and we should be respectful of each other and that any sex related stuff should on be between 2 people and not the whole world are cit. Problem is which kinda isnt a problem but FI best man wants to throw his something like that even though he knows how we are i mean we dont even watch movies that have anything sexual related in them and the bm knows that and he just thinks that as he said" lighten up for a day" but truly how can you tell someone to lighten up on there belief thats like saying if your a believer in something truly just say fuck it for a day just cause someone else says you should because they do. I dont think so not in my book but what do you think ? And another thing what kinda party should we throw kinda a family get to gether/friends to but a party for both of us at once.

    Sorry its so long it has been upseting me that his BM wont just shut the fuck up and accept us for us lol sorry for my french.

     
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    Charm bracelet    July 24, 2010   Placentia, CA

    I think you could do a wedding shower.  It's a party for the couple. We had casino night for one of our friends.  We set up the house and had different card tables and we played casino-ish games.  

    As for the BM, I think the groom needs to talk to him and set him straight.  How close are they? 

     
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    twalila    May 2010   Ohio

    FI may go to a strip club for a small part of this bparty (which doesn't bother me personally at all) but for the "main event" he wants to go to a nice dinner and to a local microbrewery or scotch/bourbon bar with his closest friends.  For my party, since I don't drink, I suggested to the girls we either have a girls night in so the ones that want can have martinis or mimosas while we all watch chick-flicks and do mani/pedis.  My other suggestion was to spend the afternoon at the amusement park we went to growing up.  If we both ended up having our parties in our home town (we live 8 hrs away so that's still up in the air), we want to all meet up for a bonfire at the end of the night.  My point is there are PLENTY of ideas for non-naked lady bparties=) 

     
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    caszos    June 2010   Florida

    Can you maybej ust do a low-key joint party?

     

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