- 2 years ago
So after walking away from a 4.5 year relationship, dusting myself off and figuring out what I wanted from life, I joined EHarmony. Like, 3 days after my break up (As soon as I ended my previous relationship, how amazing I felt and how relieved, indicated that it really wasn’t right and hadn’t been for a long time – before you judge me there was sound reasoning for this quick movement, explained in detail in another post of mine, feel free to have a peek).
I met a pretty fantastic chap. I even wrote a post about our first date – which STARTED with a kiss!
We met on Eharmony, emailed for a week, texting and emailing constantly. We then had an epic 12 hour date and have been together ever since. The last few months we have been about 1 hour and 15 mins away from each other, but last weekend he move so now it’s only a 35 min trip. Which means, lots more time together.
We had really open, frank discssusions about what we both want from the future. Even on our first date we were telling it straight and laying out what we want from life, as neither of us wanted to waste our time. We are on the same page with where we want to go, it’s been about 3.5 months and it’s going great. It’s like we just fit together prefectly. Which is cheesy as a shit I know, but whatever man… I’m in luuuuuuuurve! 😉
So are going to carry on with this getting to know each other, loving each other, falling deeper in love stage and towards the end of the year, we plan to start looking for a place together. I know you can never been certain, but I am pretty sure, he is the one. He’s said he’s certain I am the lady for him and we will get married and have babies etc. So, same page, currently having a great time, looking forward to what the future brings.
So… tell me your stories ladies. When did you meet, what was your first date like, how long have you been together, have you gone on to get married and have kids etc? Love to hear about timescales. All just out of interest really as I don’t know many people in real life that have done online dating.
Looking forward to your responses.